"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Travelling Man.

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Rudy_TubeSteak

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I had this problem of always moving from town to town every 2-3 months and it sucks not having any foundation compare to someone who is living in that town for so many years.

The problem is when I take out a girl, they know that I am leaving town soon anyway and their anti-sl*t shield goes up and accuse me of trying to get a "going away" present.

How do I get to have fun even though I am leaving? For example I have less than 2 weeks left in this town I'm staying at.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ethnomethodologist

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Aw, you ****ing lucky turd muncher! How insulting it is to say that!

You are a bastard for even THINKING that is a bad thing, you must be a spoiled little punk:down:

When you going to realize there are some of us who get to visit towns with over 5000 people once every other YEAR!!!!!

I WISH I was in your shoes, WISH WISH WISH, there is no doubt around the fact I wish I was where you were.
 
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Dude, you are playing this totally wrong

Girls love the new guy in town,

And what are you talking about? Anti slut sheild goes up????? are you bannanas? If anything the panties come down

Girls love the fact that you arent going to be around. They get to screw you and chances are no one will ever find out

Kind of like how girls F everyone when they go away on vaca
 
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Damn it lol

You guys are awesome...Im just clueless at the moment.

Ok now I have less than 2 weeks??

So how do I play the game right? Obviously it aint like the regular thing but dammit how would you guys play it?

Lol turd muncher lol
 
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Make her show you around town.....where are the fun places.... where to drink....eat......sleep :eek:

you can't be boring eather.... it's all got to be on the fly.....

if you ask her out, don't make it seem like a date. If she thinks it's an official date, then she will shut right up, especially when she finds out your out of there in couple of weeks.... If she thinks she is just showing some guy around, and she is having fun, it's lot more likely she will open up...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rudy_TubeSteak

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Because Im in uni I can only stay at a town for 3months max yet I do know all the places.

Lol Im thinking I could play the lost new boy in town and get someone to take me out.
 
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