"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The "tingle down" theory

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not so much becuase of the women and all their issues..

i Mean, i don't k now if i am just not in a good mood today or whatever the case maybe.. but, you just scroll through the site and men have gotten progressively worse. it's like you try to fight the good fight and it's like that scene in Spartacus when he is killing all the Romans and putting in work and they pan out and you see there are like 500 Romans surrounding him and he's about to get wacked.
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I mean I know women have issue, but my fvcking god come on. at some point men have to look themselves in the mirror and say I am allowing all tis **** to happen. i might not have all the game in the world, i might not know the secret to making the gina tingle but i do know i don't have to put up with this bull **** and I am, very willingly.

i think it was warrior who said it the other day.. I am 100% convinced you are about to see the Reaganomics of ***** lol. The ***** gettin middle class is gone. The dude that might run into 2-3 girls a year and they think he's cute, date one for a few months, break up for a month or so, meet a another girl go on a few dates.. that's gone. or it's about gone.

The middle class of sexual activity has disappeared. What you are now going to have, are seriously, like 2 or 3 guys in an environment that has a line of women talking about them and then the rest of the men, dealing with emotional support of that that man's backlash. I mean it's always been that way to some extent but it's about to get much wrose.


see, when i grew up, I wasn't... as AFC was.. at least I knew how to actually talk to a woman. I knew what to talk about, I knew how to make a woman laugh, I could be nice yet not creepy.. I had a tad bit of game if you will. every dude i knew had a tad bit of game. it was nothing for me in high school to get on three way with my boys and put them on mute while i talk to a girl. we all did it and i had no shame in my game. lol it was just when I GOT her that all hell broke lose.

I knew how to act on a date.. there just basic, **** you know how to do, and hell i was nothing near a player. I was cute but i wasn't a player or antyhing. I was a normal well adjusted teenager who liked women. I even walked down on homecoming one year.

1. this is going to be very un PC but fvck it. you are going to see a LOT more interracial dating than you have in the last 10 years partly because it's more accepted but partly.. i just see now. there are certain things that that black kids are taught that white kids for the most part I just don't see taught. dammit my dad may not have paid for my school or set me up a savings account or buy my first car but dammit i could talk to a woman and so could all my friends growing up.

2. the media is not making it much better. my wife loves cougar town. "40 is the new 20" .rotfl no it's fvcking not. running around here all these sexually depressed 22 year olds hitting on 45 year old women and ****.


anyway, the tingle down theory, that if all the alpha get psvvy they will create sexual opportunities for other men, doesn't work. and it's going to get worse.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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