"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the time for sexual tension

john paul

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I should only try to create sexual tension with a girl after i have isolated or i have the opertunity to isolate her soon.

So sexual tension is pointless to use if you dont plan on making a move later that night. right?


Is my thinking correct on this?
 

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No, it's not pointless....if you don't make a move that night, then pick up where you left off, she will want you even more ;)
 

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hmm i see.

and what about a girlfriend? she knows your interested and she knows the night will lead to sex.

Is sexual tension used on girls you have never been intimate with or only a few times even.
 

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when she knows you and if u have made out earlier, remember that keepin the sexual tension should be complete fun in every sense of the word coz already knows you are interested in making out with her but sexual tension is all abuot keeping the anticipation.

when u just meet a girl or she never went this far with you, its better if u keep the sexual seduction in the form of seduction. u know kind of forcing her through your sexual energy. it works the best and better than anything.
 

john paul

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Sorry i think i just asked a bad question when i added the girlfriend part.

Sexual tension is used to get a girl so theres no reason to use it if you already have the girl.


But thanks for renforcing some of the things I should remember when using sexual tension.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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