"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Time For Change

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What forces someone of the human condition onto a pronounced path of change? It could be anything! The way your friends catagorize you. The way females have treated you in the past. The level of respect you get in society in general. The way your body looks. ****, could be anything really! Well, whatever it is for you, I know for me it's the lingering urge I've had in my stomach since I can remember of an ambition for greatness. I feel as if I've always been able achieve what I wanted, yet I've never imbraced it; I find myself farther from it after every passing year, at least for the last 6 or 7 of them. My story isn't strickly about women, my story is of a 21 year old young man in search of the path to excellence in everything I do!

I've been reading these forums for the last year or so, on and off. I've picked up the information I've felt was essential to understanding and attracting women in situation where I feel it will help. Other things I've completely blown off due to the innate ignorance in logic; I refuse to adopt principles I don't deem fitting. So this is where I'm at information wise around here.

Just wanted to finally register and make myself known. I plan to help contribute to this site as much as I can. Keep in mind I AM NOT a DJ. I AM NOT an AFC. I'm simply a guy who's always been natural with socializing, who has been making some poor decisions along the road, and is trying to dig myself out the rabbits hole.

Everyone who has dropped any kind of positive material in the last year, much appreciated! Cheers-
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX : I've learned a lot of important information from your Cluster B threads. You saved me from a lot of time that would have been wasted with some crazy hoz! Cheers--

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I'm glad I could be of service.

Its sad how prevalent these people are in society.

I don't think every guy here that gets attracted to one is necessarily messed up like reset and myself were to get involved with them, I just think they also can attract healthy guys too with their sexuality and phony soulmate schtick with the mirroring of your best qualities back at you that they do.

A really good learning experience any Sosuaver can do for themselves if they have HBO is to watch the series "In Treatment".

Specifically the episodes with Laura.

She is a classic case of Histrionic Personality Disorder.

She has disrupted not only the therapist's marriage on the show but emotionally affected him to the point that he attacked another one of his patient's in therapy for insulting her.

Fictional show but very realistic portrayel of what these people are capable of.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ill give that show a check.

See, I found your information useful not only in distinguishing women who have problems, but just toxic people I've allowed myself to be exposed to for long periods of time without realising it. That's one of the hardest things to do. To accept that people close to you are really just not people of character you want to associate yourself with anymore. It's tough ****, but it's a matter of your personal health.

Part of the 'rabbit hole' I was talking about in my original post is me trying to move away from these people. They've really brought me down over the years, and I gotta push away from them. It's as if my entire network of associates (I have a few good close friends) I met through my years of smoking weed and **** like that, are simply put, toxic people. Most all of them! It's shocking but true. I'm assuming you went through something like this to realise the nature of these kinds of people?
 
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"I'm assuming you went through something like this to realise the nature of these kinds of people?"

Heh, well in my case it was the opposite.

The so called "good people" of society were toxic ie principles, teachers (not all but many) preppies, the socially accepted crowds etc.

The drug dealers and cast aways that I knew on the other hand turned out to be some of the best human beings that I've ever known.

Not that what many of them did was good for society mind you as it wasn't but I could tell that if someone other than the truly bad people on the streets had shown them love then they would not of been engaging in criminal behaviour for their own survival.
 
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