"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The three parts of a human

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They say men have the best ideas when in the shower...Who knew? Thinking while soaping up somehow brought up a thought...No, not that kind of thought. A thinkful one. I shall enlighten you...

The three parts of a human: Mind, Body, and Soul. Each part is a strength...Each part is also a weakness.

Mind: The mind is a strong aspect of a human. You cannot survive with it. When you are dead, you are still alive if you're mind was active, because you left thoughts and ideas. Without it, we can not think, move, speak, breath, ect. It is a complex item. Unlike the body, it can not be made. A computer can not be a brain. Nerve endings, emotions, situations, moods...All control our descisions in a situation. Educate your mind and make it stronger and you will become better at things. Remember...An empty mind is a dangerous thing. A mind that is never thinking is dangerous.

Body: Not as strong as the mind or soul, the body is still important. This is the only thing people see of us everyday. They can't see our minds and know what we are thinking. While the mind may control emotion, the body reflects it. Also like the mind, the body can be strengthened. Combined, a fit mind and fit body can be a deadly combination.

Soul: This one is a little tricky. Some people believe in a soul, some don't. I won't go into much here. Your soul is what drives you. "The body is weak, but the soul is strong."

Get all three in shape and you'll be one helluva person.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PHAT Rabbit,

You can have all the intellect (mind) in the world, but without drive (soul), you would go nowhere.

It's like having a Porsche with a full tank of gas, but no engine.
 

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Originally posted by PHAT Rabbit
A porsche completely fueled is still an object with no life. Does a porsche have a mind? So how can you compare this to a human being.
He was making an anology:

A person with a mind but no soul is like a porsche with gas but no engine
 

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When applied how you apply it, yeah, it's pretty bad. ;) But I wasn't using my analogy for energy and soul; rather, I was talking about intellect and drive, mind and soul.

In my anaolgy, fuel = knowledge (intellect/mind): you could have a full knowledge (full tank of gas), but, without a working engine (a functioning drive), you wouldn't be able to harness the gas and you'd get nowhere.
 
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