The Three Mentalities of Successful PUA / Don Juan

[syncmaster]

Mentality #1.

You are the prize.

If you truly belive you are the prize than gaming will suddenly be alot easier. She needs to prove herself to you because you already have a hareem of beautiful women to choose from. You are letting her participate in your world and she should be extremley grateful to be allowed. This is an ultra exclusive club. Know you're the best, feel you are the best. When you walk into a club people will know right away that you own the ****ing room. You are the prize, never forget it.

Mentality #2

Women want prince charming.

Each woman wakes up each morning hoping today is the day that her prince will come and swoop her off her feet. This prince isn't the fairytale bull**** you see in snow white. Her prince is a man. Her pince stands up for himself, however he is charismatic and smooth as hell. He knows how to move, act and carry himself. She wants to find you. She wants to be seduced. Every woman wakes up each morning wanting to be seduced by her prince charming.

Mentality #3

Women want to get ****ed.

You'll see beautiful women at the club or in the street. These gorgeous women are not celibate. They are getting ****ed. Every woman except your mother and your sister like being ****ed! They are going to go home and spread their legs for a man and say "**** me baby, **** me!" Why isn't that guy you? Why aren't you ****ing her? The only thing preventing that from happening is mentality. Combine #1 and #2 and #3 will fall into place naturally.

The only thing limiting you is the limitations you put on yourself.

Cheers.
- Syncmaster

 

[khash]

the first one is a good one.
go into detail tho instead of just stating the fact. everybody here knows that you must act like the prize.
if you wanna give a good advice, you gotta tell em how to do just that?
so go ahead, let me hear what u got.

 

[Mission]

You cannot simply act like the prize all the time though. The way to put it is that, you are qualifying her. You approach a woman because you find her attractive, then you decide after talking to her if she is worth your time. That is why we ask them questions, of course sometimes we just go in to seduce. However all together you should have the attitude that is, are YOU what I really want to be involved with?

--Mission

 

[flippinfreak]

Two questions...

How did you find the inspiration to write up 5 tips in the matter of minutes?
I'm guessing you wrote them onto another site first, or made notes and just filled in blanks first, but still, entertain me.

How would an AFC get over the fact that people who need to think of a mentality to succeed(Khash) are going to be called liars(sorta Mission) and suddenly lose confidence since it IS true that they are lying?

 

[syncmaster]

Two questions...

How did you find the inspiration to write up 5 tips in the matter of minutes?
I'm guessing you wrote them onto another site first, or made notes and just filled in blanks first, but still, entertain me.

How would an AFC get over the fact that people who need to think of a mentality to succeed(Khash) are going to be called liars(sorta Mission) and suddenly lose confidence since it IS true that they are lying?

They're written on the mystery method website. I've got alot of material floating around in journals and other websites. I sometimes cross post to add to other forums.

It stems from an inner belief that nothing can hold you down.

Khash, with that kind of attitude how do you expect to learn anything at all. You're questioning in challenge form almost as though you're looking for a way to prove me wrong. There are no simple "steps" to a belief system. The Bible isn't a handbook that teaches you how to belive in God. It comes from being driven to succeed and realizing that you're worth more than the sum of your parts. It's a philosophy, not a step by step guide. If you really belive then you aren't lying. You create your own reality.

Mission - I agree with you. By going up and having her qualify herself to you you're getting her to prove why she should be worth your time. You are the prize to be sought after. You're no longer chasing her, she's chasing you because no other guy would go up and question why she should have a chance. All the other men are saying why they should have a chance with her. It's a different mentality all together.

-Maverick

 

[khash]

They're written on the mystery method website. I've got alot of material floating around in journals and other websites. I sometimes cross post to add to other forums.

It stems from an inner belief that nothing can hold you down.

Khash, with that kind of attitude how do you expect to learn anything at all. You're questioning in challenge form almost as though you're looking for a way to prove me wrong. There are no simple "steps" to a belief system. The Bible isn't a handbook that teaches you how to belive in God. It comes from being driven to succeed and realizing that you're worth more than the sum of your parts. It's a philosophy, not a step by step guide. If you really belive then you aren't lying. You create your own reality.

Mission - I agree with you. By going up and having her qualify herself to you you're getting her to prove why she should be worth your time. You are the prize to be sought after. You're no longer chasing her, she's chasing you because no other guy would go up and question why she should have a chance. All the other men are saying why they should have a chance with her. It's a different mentality all together.

-Maverick

No.

what u said wasnt even anything new or special. your a genius, we must act like the prize. wowwww.
im not trying ot prove u wrong but i wanna get deeper into it than simply stating the fact. how must you act like the prize when you are talking to her? what actions you do are going to make you the prize.

these are the things we need here. not a buncha facts that are written 50 times in the DJ bible.

 

[syncmaster]

No.

what u said wasnt even anything new or special. your a genius, we must act like the prize. wowwww.
im not trying ot prove u wrong but i wanna get deeper into it than simply stating the fact. how must you act like the prize when you are talking to her? what actions you do are going to make you the prize.

these are the things we need here. not a buncha facts that are written 50 times in the DJ bible.

You are the prize by believing you are the prize not by a certain set of actions. You know that feeling you have when you're on top of the world? The feeling when you're untouchable. Thats what i'm talking about. Ever been in a club and just had everything go your way? Every set you opened stuck, not because you did something spectacular or out of the ordinary but because you KNEW it would open even before you attempted. You can't become an "alpha male" simply by acting like one. Sure, you'll fool a few people but it fades. If thats what you're looking for then you need to be Confident in your abilities, charismatic, hold court, be interesting, be assertive. Don't lean in when in conversation. When opening a moving set, don't follow, just increase your voice as they get further away. It acts like a magnet, they will stop and come back. Tips like this are easy to find at websites like www.bristollair.com but you can't base your game on routines that you've memorised. Work on inner game first and you'll go alot further. Stop looking for a quick fix. The guys that got good at this game took YEARS getting good.

If you're intersted in changing your belief system I recommend you read up on NLP. Richard Bandler has some good work out there. Frogs into Princes is great. Also take a look at Neuro Linguistic Programming for Dummies. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene is good for reframing. Anything by Donald Trump is worth looking at and so is "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.

Cheers.
- Mav

 

[khash]

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