"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IamtheAlphamale

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When you realize that the massive majority of women are garbage. Theres nothing like seeing a HB and then you get to know her and realize shes just ****ed. Its like that movie where all the fat chicks had great bodies in that one guys head and the hot chicks were ugly to him. I personally don't know about the fat chicks too much but I do know that most hot girls are messed up and a waste of time unless you want to put your **** in them. The less AFC you become the more you will see it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Poonani Maker

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Well also, when you ACT as if you don't have time to stick around and talk, the hot ones will want you more. When you've "gotta go" they start thinking "Well, where is he going?" and don't let them ask you. Make them jump through Your hoops and try to thwart her questions about you and your business. Give no wh0res the time of day.
 

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I really try to stay away from any type of strategy now days. Like If I didn't want to talk to them anymore and they asked why I would probably just tell them that I already spent enough time on them.
 

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It also sort of depends what you consider to be hot. This is bit of a generalisation but most girls who show lots and lots of flesh have no interests other than male attention, and getting pounded. Girls like that aren't good for anything but being a sperm receptacle. Unless you are new to getting laid or you want to get down and dirty,they are not interesting.

I prefer girls and women who are feminine and passionate. Feminine is a woman who not only wears dresses, makeup and heels but also refrains from nagging, swearing, cursing and raising her voice. A girl who lets a man be a man, who is not afraid to show her weakness and tenderness, who appreciates chivalry and show gratitude. A girl with soft, flowing movement and voice, who is also a bit modest. If she is feminine and passionate, she is going to be fun to date whether she is a bit overweight or not superhot and whether you get laid or not.
 
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