"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The thing that annoys me the most

btownbuck2012

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There’s this married couple I know, recently married who both basically f*ck around on each other. Both are insecure and controlling of one another.

BUT on instagram it’s a different story. Tons of pictures of their “glorious Union” for us all to see.

Why do people do this? It’s like have the guts to live an authentic life for f*ck sake.

Ugh....rant/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Empty barrels make the most noise bro. The most insecure people are the ones who'll be most likely to show off and virtue signal.
 

mrgoodstuff

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There’s this married couple I know, recently married who both basically f*ck around on each other. Both are insecure and controlling of one another.

BUT on instagram it’s a different story. Tons of pictures of their “glorious Union” for us all to see.

Why do people do this? It’s like have the guts to live an authentic life for f*ck sake.

Ugh....rant/
That's what all that cheating is. A baby bottle for their narcissism and insecurities. Hell narcissism is often rooted in insecurities.
 

Alvafe

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There’s this married couple I know, recently married who both basically f*ck around on each other. Both are insecure and controlling of one another.

BUT on instagram it’s a different story. Tons of pictures of their “glorious Union” for us all to see.

Why do people do this? It’s like have the guts to live an authentic life for f*ck sake.

Ugh....rant/
why? simple, facebook, instagram they will only post and even produce pics storys of they happy times, even if they need to be fabricated, don't matte how you are doing, what matter is how it look to others, don't matter if you are debt free having a lot of savings, that no one can see, what matter is having a last model car several mortages to pay a huge house, just to show you can don't matter if you can now only eat once a day, because anything more you can't spend

that is what most people are, they sell a image not what they are, the important is the image everything else don't matter
 
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