"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The thank you thread...

Mr. Mystery

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I just wanted to start a thread for thanking Allen for whatever you feel like thanking him for.

Allen,
I've already told you how much I appreciate this place but I also wanted to touch on something imparticular that I liked.

I originally didn't like the revamp as I thought it was unnessecary, and have always been alittle old school, but one thing has come up to make me think otherwise of the update...the view counter.

I have written a few tips that I thought were great, I took time out of my life to write them and got no feedback, and I used to bump them once and watch them disapear. Now I can check the views and watch my post that I took pride in disapear with the consolence of knowing at least a few actually looked at it.

The view counter keeps people like me from bumping their own posts and is a great addition to the forum.

Thats my thank you...

Mr. Mystery
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr. Mystery

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I'm really not sure what to make of this...

Mr. Mystery
 

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Allen;
You changed, and still are changing my life around for the best. No post can really express my gratitude, but if you come to London i'll buy you a beer!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bungo Pony

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Allen, by creating this site, you've helped me and I'm sure a lot of other people get on the road to success in their personal lives. You've made one hell of a difference. Thank You & Good health to you.
 

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Allen, by showing me the true path of a real man, you've changed my life for the best. thank you.
 

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I've learned alot in the 3+ years I've been here. But the most important thing I've learned is that I AM NOT ALONE.

Thanks Allen, for providing a community from where 5000+ "Nice Guys" can finally get a clue.
 

Dell SkyCat

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Thanx

Thank you Allen for your article ' Why not just be yourself' It's true that more people know less than we think and we know just as more. Atleast the way i interpreted it :D I can confidentely STRIVE forward and know i am upgrading myself instead of just sitting there being myself. Thanx Man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DragonChi

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you've changed my life man,
it's like this site has made me into a new, and better person.....
this website is priceless, like the others said there are no
words to with enough meaning to describe my gratitude....

THANK YOU...

i would also like to thank Nicholas Hill,
the guy who put together the dj bible....
 
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Nicholas Hill

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i would also like to thank Nicholas Hill,
the guy who put together the dj bible....
Thank you, my friend, for your appreciation!
 

Anson

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Originally posted by DragonChi
i would also like to thank Nicholas Hill,
the guy who put together the dj bible....
Actually, the person who put together the dj bible was neophyte... Nicholas Hill has done amazing job updating it, though :p

Anyways, thank you allen! And thank all the mods too! Doing a helluva job! ;)
 
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