The Duke
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 4, 2008
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- 47
After months of struggling on what my approach with women should be I have finally found some clarity. I’m early 40’s and started this journey 10 years ago. I’ve had every type of woman imaginable from strippers to executive vice presidents. I’ve had one night stands, 3 week relationships, 3 month relationships, 1yr relationships, and a few long term deals. Even had one live with me for several years.
I truly want a solid girl for a LTR. However very few females meet my standards. I have waffled back and forth between holding out and going without until the right one came along. I have also thought about burning thru them like I used to in my old days and just having fun. But I think I’ve found a happy medium.
I’ve taken an approach much like a non-commital/flakey 25yo hottie does with multiple options. For the past few months I’ve managed to keep multiple girls on board. I’ve committed to none of them. I don’t go out with any of them on a weekly basis. I don’t call them, but do text. If I feel like going out with them I do, if I don’t I go out with my friends or do my hobby. I feel no obligation to any of them and don’t care if they get butthurt about it.
These girls are trying to schedule dates with me instead of me scheduling with them. I don’t commit to any of them if its more than 4 days out. Haha, I might change my mind and have a better deal. I really don’t care if they stay or go…..it’s about me. If they throw up too much drama, I replace them. My tolerance for female bs is at an all time low.
I’ve worked hard to get where I am at and finally have the upperhand in this game so I am going to take full advantage of it. I’ve got a steady supply of pu$$y and unbeknown to them I am screening every one of them for long term potential. I’m not committing to any of them and for the first time ever I feel like I am in control. Its all on my terms and I don’t feel compelled to appease them just to keep them. They will have to earn it if they want the #1 spot.
A man with options is the most dangerous threat to a woman. They all crave that type of man, but fear what he is capable of. Keep improving yourself, keep your game sharp and live life on your terms. Never give your masculine power away.
I truly want a solid girl for a LTR. However very few females meet my standards. I have waffled back and forth between holding out and going without until the right one came along. I have also thought about burning thru them like I used to in my old days and just having fun. But I think I’ve found a happy medium.
I’ve taken an approach much like a non-commital/flakey 25yo hottie does with multiple options. For the past few months I’ve managed to keep multiple girls on board. I’ve committed to none of them. I don’t go out with any of them on a weekly basis. I don’t call them, but do text. If I feel like going out with them I do, if I don’t I go out with my friends or do my hobby. I feel no obligation to any of them and don’t care if they get butthurt about it.
These girls are trying to schedule dates with me instead of me scheduling with them. I don’t commit to any of them if its more than 4 days out. Haha, I might change my mind and have a better deal. I really don’t care if they stay or go…..it’s about me. If they throw up too much drama, I replace them. My tolerance for female bs is at an all time low.
I’ve worked hard to get where I am at and finally have the upperhand in this game so I am going to take full advantage of it. I’ve got a steady supply of pu$$y and unbeknown to them I am screening every one of them for long term potential. I’m not committing to any of them and for the first time ever I feel like I am in control. Its all on my terms and I don’t feel compelled to appease them just to keep them. They will have to earn it if they want the #1 spot.
A man with options is the most dangerous threat to a woman. They all crave that type of man, but fear what he is capable of. Keep improving yourself, keep your game sharp and live life on your terms. Never give your masculine power away.