I keep on running into http://www.thetaoofbadass.com/. Has anyone used it ? Any experience ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Tao of Badass - Useful ?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zekko
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I've read this, I found it rather disappointing to be honest, especially considering the amount of hype the guy puts into it, and the extravagent promises he makes. Typical guru, more hype than substance. His method of "creating love" seemed especially silly and unnatural to me.
I thought the focus of his material was really narrow, really all it covers is how to do an approach. It's not that the material is terrible really, it's just that it's the same old stuff rehashed and reheated and served as leftovers.
I thought Kezia Noble's 15 Steps to Being a Master Seducer was better, although to be fair I tend to find most of these types of books disappointing.
Getting good with women is more about getting yourself out there and dating a bunch of women, moreso than following any sort of method. There are a few basic things that actually matter, like not being needy, being clean, good body language, that sort of thing. The rest if mostly window dressing. IMO.
I thought the focus of his material was really narrow, really all it covers is how to do an approach. It's not that the material is terrible really, it's just that it's the same old stuff rehashed and reheated and served as leftovers.
I thought Kezia Noble's 15 Steps to Being a Master Seducer was better, although to be fair I tend to find most of these types of books disappointing.
Getting good with women is more about getting yourself out there and dating a bunch of women, moreso than following any sort of method. There are a few basic things that actually matter, like not being needy, being clean, good body language, that sort of thing. The rest if mostly window dressing. IMO.
