“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The supermarket attack

whiskerbiskit

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I notice there are a lot of attractive women in supermarkets in my area but am having difficulty thinking of ways to break the ice, much less get any farther in this environment.

I would like to hear guys who have had success in this or similar scenes.

Specifically, how did you get small talk going and from there the rest?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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white sox bill

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I've tried these approaches w/somewhat sucess...walk up to where they are looking at say hamburger helper and ask for some other receipes that may compliment it. Ask any question about cooking with whatever it is they are looking at. Do it with confidence and be matter-of-factly
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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white sox bill said:
I've tried these approaches w/somewhat sucess...walk up to where they are looking at say hamburger helper and ask for some other receipes that may compliment it. Ask any question about cooking with whatever it is they are looking at. Do it with confidence and be matter-of-factly
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white sox bill said:
I've tried these approaches w/somewhat sucess...walk up to where they are looking at say hamburger helper and ask for some other receipes that may compliment it. Ask any question about cooking with whatever it is they are looking at. Do it with confidence and be matter-of-factly

Makes me wanna hit the local supermarket. :woo:
 

wunnaBsmooth

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Good one!

For example, if you pass a HB in the aisle, just say, "Wow. You're making my trip to the grocery store a little less boring today. What do you think about that?"

Now THAT is a line that will ge seeing some air play tonight while I'm shopping! Thanks ESPI!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Espi said:
I've tried that same method several times, and it's never worked. I open a lot of women in grocery stores, and I've found the best way to do it is to be
overtly flirtatious. Make your intentions known from the beginning. For example, if you pass a HB in the aisle, just say, "Wow. You're making my trip to the grocery store a little less boring today. What do you think about that?"
Yes, please do that. Please tell her the same thing that 80 other guys have told her that day. Good way to be unique, chief.
 
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