The sun is always shining part 2
When you are out in the day, running errands, going to the bank, grocery shopping, etc... there are a certain percentage of women who DESPERATELY WANT to be approached. I run a lot of daygame these days -- I don't go to clubs much anymore at all, and after running mostly daygame for the past year or so, I think I have something here worth posting.
I have started to notice something during the day, and I think it's worth sharing here -- although I don't exactly have the language or the words to explain it exactly.
What I have noticed, is this:
Women will throw-out into the world around them a "vibe" that says, "APPROACH ME...!" I SWEAR I can feel this, I swear to you that if you can just develop your social awareness to a certain point you can FEEL this from women: it is almost like an emotion, a vibe that (some) women are projecting out into the world.
One of the things that I have started to do each night before I go to sleep is I ask my mind to BECOME MORE AWARE OF WOMEN AROUND ME WHO WANT TO BE APPROACHED. Over time, I have developed a kind of radar for it.
It's weird, but it is real -- or, at the very least, it feels real to me.
My game now is almost all daygame, and I run it very direct, and very fast. I use multiple statements of intent, and I do use a very basic -- and very fast -- routine-stack. It takes about 5 minutes to number close during day, I really feel that daygame is so much better than night.
I open with basic stuff like, "OhMyGod... you are SOOOOO cute...! I gotta find out who you are...!"
Simple as that.
99% of the time you'll get a HUGE grin from the girl.
"You're not as cute as me, though," I'll say. Joke-joke-joke-tease-tease-tease.
If I could suggest one basic concept today to help your game, it would be for you to try and develop an awareness for the girls around you at all times, and try and "feel" which ones are inviting approaches by their dress, body language, and general manner. Work on this, I am telling you that this is a very real thing out there in the world, try and start noticing it.
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One more thing:
Anytime during daygame when you are talking to a girl, she is actually doing everything that she can to help you succeed. Think about this, and your daygame will improve drastically.
As long as the girl is standing there listening to you, what she is really saying, is, "I am still here. I am still listening. Please Continue talking."
Even if she seems unresponsive, she is actually doing everything she can to help you as long as she stands there and doesn't leave.
I frame my daygame in just that way: she's trying to help us get together, because otherwise she would have turned on her heel and left.
If she's going to continue to stand here and let me game, she is at the hook with me and I am solid.
Less than 1% of women will actually walk-off from you during the day, and usually it's because they're with a guy or waiting for a guy.
As long as she stands there listening to you, you are doing just FINE.
