“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I always work solo -- and I run only day game (lately). Some random thoughts:

1. 99% of guys won't open girls during the day -- even guys who have major club game don't approach during the day, which means: if you open, you don't need to do anything else to create an Alpha presence: the simple fact that you opened her during the day MAKES YOU ALPHA ALL BY ITSELF.

2. Have a very positive emotional state -- anything she says/does is "cute," or "adorable," or "funny."

Her: "**** off."

You: "Ohmygod that is so CUTE...! I love that whole *****-shield thing -- my sister does it better than you do it, though. My sister could give you lessons! Anyhow, check this out... I've been invited to move into a house with 6 girls -- I'd be the only guy. How crazy is this? I mean, I'm thinking, this is ****ing bat****-crazy, --this can't work, you know what I mean...? Six girls and one guy? We must be nuts."

Her job is to screen you out.

Your job is to keep screening yourself right back in.

You: "You know, you're actually pretty cute -- you're not as cute as me, though. You gotta admit that. I'm like cuter than a whole laundry basket full of kitty-cats. But you're pretty close, though. You probably look extra cute just being seen with me."

Blah-blah-blah....

Half the **** I say to girls doesn't even make any ****ing sense.

3. When the girl says (during day) that she really has to get going, it's true: she really does have to be someplace at a certain time, and you probably do, too. This means that your basic goal is a number close -- your basic day routine should be geared towards number-closing her within 3-5 minutes.

4. Introduce kino as you leave -- once you have the number, don't leave quickly. Stay and talk after you have the digits -- you are in no hurry, here. She'll leave in a minute or two all by herself -- during day, we all have places to go and schedules to keep. Lightly touch her shoulder as you leave, look her in the eye and say, "I will call you, you know."

5. Create an expectation.

You, as if you just thought of it: "You know... when I call you, I want to give you this emotions test thingy that I found on the internet. It tells you what emotions are running your life. The guy that wrote it is completely crazy -- or else he's a genius. It's pretty cool what he put together, it's like, super-interesting...."

Leave on a high note, touch her shoulder as you leave. Literally, as you leave, you should be smiling and touching her. During day, this is casual, understated, and elegant, with a positive vibe. It MUST be a natural extension of your personality. Nothing here should feel forced.

You: "Too bad we both have things to do -- but hey, we will definitely talk later."

6. Day game success ultimately depends upon the quality of your phone game -- the phone game later is what creates EVERYTHING for you. If your phone game sucks, then your work on your phone skills will magnify your perceived success during day.

Usually, when guys say, "I hate day game, it just doesn't work for me..." WHAT THEY ARE REALLY SAYING is that they can't take things to the phone and build from there.

As long as you are getting the number, your day game is solid.

Day game is just a precursor to the phone call, and that's ALL that it is.
 
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Super Hero said:
if you open, you don't need to do anything else to create an Alpha presence, the simple fact that you opened her during the day MAKES YOU ALPHA ALL BY ITSELF.
If that is so, why do 99% of the girls walk away when stopped by a stranger and told 'Hi' followed by a direct opener.

Super Hero said:
2. Have a very positive emotional state -- anything she says/does is "cute," or "adorable," or "funny."

Her: "**** off."

You: "Ohmygod that is so CUTE...! I love that whole *****-shield thing -- my sister does it better than you do it, though. My sister could give you lessons! Anyhow, check this out... I've been invited to move into a house with 6 girls -- I'd be the only guy. How crazy is this? I mean, I'm thinking, this is ****ing bat****-crazy, --this can't work, you know what I mean...? Six girls and one guy? We must be nuts."
You ARE nuts. After you said **** off, you may say your long canned dialogue to feel better about yourself, but she has already walked 10 feet away or put her earphone back on and started ignoring your presence.
 

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U are both wrong and right. Just be natural and be willing to fail. No need for canned routines IF that's not you're thing. Type in snuffbox in the YouTube search bar and you will see the amount of opportunities men miss because they are not aware of women unconsciously testing them. The lack of persistence in men is what messes things up
 

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The concept is good, but the execution is ****. Sounds too forced, flamboyant, and douche baggery. Being light-hearted, making jokes (even at yourself), using sarcastic humor, not caring for their approval, having confidence, being able to approach... That's what is effective about this.

I suppose it depends on who you're targeting and what your intentions are, though. Some girls do like douche bags.
 

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AreYouSingleFemale said:
If that is so, why do 99% of the girls walk away when stopped by a stranger and told 'Hi' followed by a direct opener.
Because you obviously dont understand what "being open" means. My guess , you creep and just look at her boobs with water in your mouth.

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You ARE nuts. After you said **** off, you may say your long canned dialogue to feel better about yourself, but she has already walked 10 feet away or put her earphone back on and started ignoring your presence.
Do you feel better after validating your limiting belief. I dont care what the girl says at all. I'd rather watch tom and jerry.

floydb25 said:
The concept is good, but the execution is ****. Sounds too forced, flamboyant, and douche baggery. Being light-hearted, making jokes (even at yourself), using sarcastic humor, not caring for their approval, having confidence, being able to approach... That's what is effective about this.

I suppose it depends on who you're targeting and what your intentions are, though. Some girls do like douche bags.
:nono:

@YAboi: Read what I wrote, Again and what you wrote, Again. But this time read between the lines. Anyways :flowers:
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Didn't mean to imply that YOU are a douche bag - just that this routine is douche baggy in nature. Should probably clarify that from now on... Not meaning to insult anyone, but it comes off that way sometimes.
 

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Great post!

I am a little confused about the discussion of "douchebaggery"

How can we live our lives based on message board style points and still get laid?

If women respond to douchebaggery and it gets us laid, so be it...

If you see a guy approach a girl and you overhear the conversation and you consider his style to be douchey, and yet he gets her number and inserts his penis in her vagina, does it not feel as good for him when he's plowing her because he said some things you consider douchey?
 

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Some of the stuff you say is just looney. Now that probably fits your personality but won't fit a lot of people. The general message however is pretty good though.

What's your thought on phone game?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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YAboi said:
Type in snuffbox in the YouTube search bar and you will see the amount of opportunities men miss because they are not aware of women unconsciously testing them.
I didn't find something which showed "amount of opportunities men miss because they are not aware of women unconsciously testing them". Can you be more specific? Give some links perhaps.
 

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I got into daytime cold approaching a few months ago. It is SO easy if you bring your swagger and man up. I have NEVER had a girl walk away from me.

I agree that 99% of guys don't open girls during the day. The only guy I've seen hit on a girl during the day is my wingman.

You see a girl sitting by herself at a table go over there and sit down and say, "I'm gonna sit here. I have this table reserved for me in 10 minutes and I decided to get here early." I think you should always have a situational opener ready to go so you don't choke up on the opener. But after that just have a normal conversation. Crack some jokes, tease her, etc.

I have also never had a girl deny me a phone number. You approach a girl like that and you are automatically more alpha than all those guys that aren't approaching. Girls sense this right away. The hardest part is the follow up. When you only talk to a girl for a few minutes then she is more likely to flake. But if you can spend 10 minutes talking with her then you likely have a solid date.
 

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floydb25 said:
Didn't mean to imply that YOU are a douche bag - just that this routine is douche baggy in nature. Should probably clarify that from now on... Not meaning to insult anyone, but it comes off that way sometimes.
[Bfloydb25[/B] still :nono:
You are missing a lot in life arent you. . . Did I offend you? . . . Good.

Here's a little something for you. My Christmas present.

Lee: [a student approaches Lee; both bow] Kick me.
[Student looks confused]
Lee: Kick me.
[Student attempts kick]
Lee: What was that? An Exhibition? We need emotional content. Now try again!
[Student tries again]
Lee: I said "emotional content." Not anger! Now try again!
[Student tries again and succeeds]
Lee: That's it! How did it feel?
[Student thinks; Lee smacks his head]
Lee: Don't think. FEEL. It's like a finger pointing at the moon.
[Looks at student who is looking at the finger; smacks student again]
Lee: Do not concentrate on the finger or you will miss all of the heavenly glory!
[Student bows; Lee smacks him again]
Lee: Never take your eyes off your opponent... even when you're bowing!
[Student bows again this time keeping his eyes on Lee]
Lee: That's better.

Some of the stuff you say is just looney. Now that probably fits your personality but won't fit a lot of people. The general message however is pretty good though.

What's your thought on phone game?
PrettyBoyAJ : Yeah Im looney but Im harmless. People are sober i the day + its lot more fun. Here's the thing, people are scared. They might be approaching, getting the lays, doing what they fear yet they are scared. Perhaps of unsolved issues. This is a big topic and I dont time right now.
Text Game
Not a big fan. I prefer real one to one interaction. But one cannot completely avoid texts.

1)Never ask questions in your messages; make statements. Asking a question at the end of the message is extremely needy. Also, if you ask a question and she doesn’t respond, you are caught in limbo as to whether you can message her again. Make statements and you can message her as much as you want. Statements are much more dominant.


2)I use proper grammar. I don't use the normal abbreviations. If you do, U R 2 stop. I do abbreviate stuff like family to "fam", San Francisco to SF, etc. I hope I don't have to say this, but NEVER USE LEET SPEAK (wikipedia it if you don't know). Know the difference between "your" and "you're", "to" and "too", etc. A side rule to this, the more sexual the message, the more proper the grammar you should use. Which feels sexier, "I want 2 slowly kiss Ur lips…" or "I want to slowly kiss your lips…"?

3)Calibrate - If she is a wild child, you will be able to use stronger language. If she is a good girl, you may want to tone it down a little.

4)Temper very strong language down with kisses. “You are one sexy little ****er aren’t you??? Xxxx” In fact, temper down any strong comments with ‘x’s’ If you are communicating right, you should be using kisses a lot. They allow you to say outrageous things in a more playful way – it is like adding voice tone to your text. Think about how you want your text to come across.

5) Avoid all the softie weak language that most guys will message. “You are very beautiful,” “You have the most wonderful eyes”. Grow some balls guys: “You are ****ing hot” and “Yes yes yes yes yes!!! I am liking you a lot xxx.”

6)Sign your name when it is the first one or two text messages you send. All you do is write your text, then at the end add SuperHero.

7) Be shocking and outrageous.

8)If you are not being malicious, don’t worry about offending her. If you go in strong and dominant, she will probably **** test you. Pass the **** test and your value will soar.

9) It’s better to be edgy than nice. She gets hoards of nice messages every week from needy guys.

10) Avoid fluff talk at all costs. As you are typing, ask yourself “is this fluff?” If it is, delete it and re-work the paragraph.

11)Don’t give a toss if she replies back or not. Treat it as a numbers game; some will reply and some will not. Who cares?

Example.
Me: Apart from having a ****ed up name, you look like someone who I would get on with xxxx

Her: Don’t you think that is a bit unnecessary? what’s wrong with my name?.

Me: I love you so much it’s making my willy hurt.
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Just make your intentions clear that you want to **** her.
 

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When picking up solo women in the daytime, I would dare say that men considering the verbal content of your spoken words "douchey" is irrelevant.

It matters not.
 

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Super Hero: Nah... It's the opposite... Thought I was the one offending you.
 

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Super Hero: Nah... It's the opposite... Thought I was the one offending you.
You miss the point AGAIN, I so want to smack you.
 

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Oh, you had a point? Could've fooled me. Was it the transcript you stole, or your fabulous game where you talk too damn much and act like a douche bag - instead of playing it cool, keeping it simple, and getting down to business? The gentlemanly route works just as well. That is, if you actually are one.
 

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floydb25 said:
Oh, you had a point? Could've fooled me. Was it the transcript you stole, or your fabulous game where you talk too damn much and act like a douche bag - instead of playing it cool, keeping it simple, and getting down to business? The gentlemanly route works just as well. That is, if you actually are one.
Hahahaha Hilarious!!
I'm not a gentleman they fcuk too slow and wait for opportunities. The transcripts are from a famous movie enter the dragon.
You must know I was kidding about the smacking thing. :p . We are cool mate. :yes:
 

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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