"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The suit game

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I remember wearing a suit to the shopping mall in my 20s, I was decent looking then, I had looks from women. Which I didn't do nothing.

I'm in my mid 30s now, the only way to tell is to test this in field.

I have a feeling if I wore a nice trendy suit, this could work. I've got back to the gym, so I'll have nice definition.

If I do get looks, should I introduce myself, do kino, do some small talk and then get her number?

Its time to take chances now
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Sounds interesting.

I considered doing the same. I don't think I ever wore a suit aside from one occasion as a kid.
 
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Jason9 said:
I have a feeling if I wore a nice trendy suit, this could work
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Frankie Muniz has thrown on a suit several times over the course of his public life, yet has always been less of a panty dropper than David Duke has been a formidable political leader, anytime after the early 90s

Your thinking and approach will have to be smidge more capacious than it currently is, hombre
 
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