Knockout King
Don Juan
For some, it just doesn't matter how much they read of what the successful don juans do, that's because what a successful don juan does is sometimes completely different than that of what will benefit a budding don juan.
What's best for a budding dj is to know what a successful dj did to become successful. (up to this point, credit goes to an old sosuave newsletter).
So I, Sexual Thing, will tell the world how I became a don juan and I want each and every other successful don juan to do the same right here in this thread!
As you may have suspected, I was a loser when I first came to this board. A washout with the ladies, I had no self confidence whatsoever and very little self respect. I had a fragile little AFC ego that scared me sh1tless at even the thought of rejection. I was totally clueless.
However, when I came to this board, the obvious became obvious. If I ever wanted even a prayer of succeeding in the world, I would have to clean up my act and I would have to do it as quickly as possible. So for starters, I stopped focusing so much on girls. Getting a girlfriend would still have been cool, I acknowledged this undeniable fact, but it was no longer the only thing I cared about. This was my first step toward djhood.
Second, I was under a oneitis spell that had to be broken. So I got myself used to thinking of her as just another girl, stopped fantasizing about her, stopped ritualisticly thinking about her, and stopped screaming her name while spankin it.
All this time I had focused on improving myself. My mian passion was martial arts which I had made a full time study and am now practicing 3 hours a day (more than that on weekends). I do 1 in the morning and 2 after school. Believe me when I say this, an hour of training in the morning does wonders for you throughout the school day, but it doesn't necessarily have to be fighting, it can be jogging, shooting hoops, anything active to keep you in shape and energized. Martial arts does both for me and I love doing it, and spending a lot of tiem on something you love makes you happy (use common sense here, even if you love video games, masturbating, or dungeons and dragons, don't make those a full time hobby and you would be best to kill any "love" for them that may exist). And as we all know, a happy person is irresistable to the ladies.
At the same time I had focused on getting my grades up and eating healthier. I used to drink 4 or 5 cups of coffee every morning, now I might drink that much in a month. I used to drink 2-3 sodas per day, now I drink less than that per week (and if you drink a lot of soda, cutting down on it will help you TREMENDOUSLY, trust me on this). I eat much less junkfood now than before and less doughy food (although you still need SOME of the latter). My diet now is mostly meat, fruit, and vegetables. I eat pasta and other stuff on occasion but for the most part it's those 3. With my grades higher and my diet healthier, I am just plain better than I was before.
Of course stopping in at sosuave was a big thing too, but unlike I've seen some people do here, I never came here for 3 hours a day. When I used to visit here often and needed serious help, instead of posting 100x a day in the anything else forum about masturbating and politics, I read the dj bible and did whatever I could to apply that to my real life, and I held off on my free time here until I didn't need to study so much. Knowledge plus the confidence I had gained from making myself a better person made me unstoppable.
One big thing I did was whiten my teeth. After all that coffee and soda, I needed some whitening, so I took care of that and silly as this may sound, I practiced smiling. The board suggested it so I practiced it, and it paid off. A friendly white smile is a very powerful influencing weapon.
But I was still lacking in conversation skills. Sosuave made me better at talking to women with it's convo tips, but
Then I took better care of myself hygenically, I washed all parts of my body twice while in the shower, got contacts to replace them frames, and having washed my face more often, I got rid of my zits.
All the time I did these things, my confidence gradually increased. As my martial arts skills increased, my confidence increased (as did my build which also helped my confidence). As my healthier diet took effect, my confidence increased. As my smile whitened and became more friendly, people had begun to see me as more friendly and more attractive, and my confidence increased. As I gradually read up on sosuave and my knowledge increased, so did my confidence.
And as all this took place, I had become happier as well. I was happier, more confident, more handsome, more built, more knowledgeable, friendlier, more talkative (and better at it), and due to all of this, a better man.
This sums up how I became a successful don juan. I'm sure others have a more complex story than mine as mine is based mostly on discipline, but as I always said, a man's value can be determined by his discipline. After all, it's not coincidence that manliness and discipline are both on a decline here in america.
Anywayz, thanks for reading, and I hope to get a lot of responses here, this could be very beneficial for any aspiring don juan.
What's best for a budding dj is to know what a successful dj did to become successful. (up to this point, credit goes to an old sosuave newsletter).
So I, Sexual Thing, will tell the world how I became a don juan and I want each and every other successful don juan to do the same right here in this thread!
As you may have suspected, I was a loser when I first came to this board. A washout with the ladies, I had no self confidence whatsoever and very little self respect. I had a fragile little AFC ego that scared me sh1tless at even the thought of rejection. I was totally clueless.
However, when I came to this board, the obvious became obvious. If I ever wanted even a prayer of succeeding in the world, I would have to clean up my act and I would have to do it as quickly as possible. So for starters, I stopped focusing so much on girls. Getting a girlfriend would still have been cool, I acknowledged this undeniable fact, but it was no longer the only thing I cared about. This was my first step toward djhood.
Second, I was under a oneitis spell that had to be broken. So I got myself used to thinking of her as just another girl, stopped fantasizing about her, stopped ritualisticly thinking about her, and stopped screaming her name while spankin it.
All this time I had focused on improving myself. My mian passion was martial arts which I had made a full time study and am now practicing 3 hours a day (more than that on weekends). I do 1 in the morning and 2 after school. Believe me when I say this, an hour of training in the morning does wonders for you throughout the school day, but it doesn't necessarily have to be fighting, it can be jogging, shooting hoops, anything active to keep you in shape and energized. Martial arts does both for me and I love doing it, and spending a lot of tiem on something you love makes you happy (use common sense here, even if you love video games, masturbating, or dungeons and dragons, don't make those a full time hobby and you would be best to kill any "love" for them that may exist). And as we all know, a happy person is irresistable to the ladies.
At the same time I had focused on getting my grades up and eating healthier. I used to drink 4 or 5 cups of coffee every morning, now I might drink that much in a month. I used to drink 2-3 sodas per day, now I drink less than that per week (and if you drink a lot of soda, cutting down on it will help you TREMENDOUSLY, trust me on this). I eat much less junkfood now than before and less doughy food (although you still need SOME of the latter). My diet now is mostly meat, fruit, and vegetables. I eat pasta and other stuff on occasion but for the most part it's those 3. With my grades higher and my diet healthier, I am just plain better than I was before.
Of course stopping in at sosuave was a big thing too, but unlike I've seen some people do here, I never came here for 3 hours a day. When I used to visit here often and needed serious help, instead of posting 100x a day in the anything else forum about masturbating and politics, I read the dj bible and did whatever I could to apply that to my real life, and I held off on my free time here until I didn't need to study so much. Knowledge plus the confidence I had gained from making myself a better person made me unstoppable.
One big thing I did was whiten my teeth. After all that coffee and soda, I needed some whitening, so I took care of that and silly as this may sound, I practiced smiling. The board suggested it so I practiced it, and it paid off. A friendly white smile is a very powerful influencing weapon.
But I was still lacking in conversation skills. Sosuave made me better at talking to women with it's convo tips, but
Then I took better care of myself hygenically, I washed all parts of my body twice while in the shower, got contacts to replace them frames, and having washed my face more often, I got rid of my zits.
All the time I did these things, my confidence gradually increased. As my martial arts skills increased, my confidence increased (as did my build which also helped my confidence). As my healthier diet took effect, my confidence increased. As my smile whitened and became more friendly, people had begun to see me as more friendly and more attractive, and my confidence increased. As I gradually read up on sosuave and my knowledge increased, so did my confidence.
And as all this took place, I had become happier as well. I was happier, more confident, more handsome, more built, more knowledgeable, friendlier, more talkative (and better at it), and due to all of this, a better man.
This sums up how I became a successful don juan. I'm sure others have a more complex story than mine as mine is based mostly on discipline, but as I always said, a man's value can be determined by his discipline. After all, it's not coincidence that manliness and discipline are both on a decline here in america.
Anywayz, thanks for reading, and I hope to get a lot of responses here, this could be very beneficial for any aspiring don juan.
