"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The STUCK-UP chick...how to break her

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Okay so I need some help on this one if ANYONE has any expertise on breaking the stuck up chick down to a level were you can get a convo in i will be anyhing short that pure mastering DJ technique....


There's this HOTTY i'm scoping and she seem's like she needs me in her life :D so i wanna know if anyone has any help on breaking that invisible stuck-up bubble we all see when going to college....


p.s. Anyone who's in college and want to partner up sarging in the next 2 days PM me i would like to have a sarge partner like a small bootcamp....if there is more than one i'll probably start a thread for us......

well anyway any tips on breaking the stuckup bearier please tell me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wanna sarge w/ ya brotha. I personally mack w/ the snotty chicks and if they remain stuck up I start to ignore them. Then they start to miss all the attention..... psychology is a beautiful thing.
 
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mercutio, good to hear that youre doing well for yourself.

Typically speaking, with snotty girls, I usually call them on their bullshyt... some of them take it as a challenge and fix it, others take it as an insult and leave. Either way works for me.
 
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thanks man thats one!!!


DJ_N_making and merc


i'm taking public speaking and i plan on getting more comfortable with speaking to anyone and everyone....I think stuck-ups take more time....but this chick i really want her to be mine thought it's my biggest challenge yet...
 
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To each his own on the preferred target... some peope like rabbit hunting, others prefer cougars or other wild animals.

I prefer the more immediate challenge. The 'the only reason you can't get laid at/on ______ is because you're gay or married.'

Or the challenge of being a good wingman, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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