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Don Juan
From the Creator of The Ganji Game, comes the STRONGARM FINESSE:
I am making this post for all of you guys who seem to have to try too hard to get the girl and you keep trying. Let's be honest, trying at times appears weak and lame. It would be much better if you could just make the call, meet her, and seal the deal, (sealing in this case refers to getting laid). I at times have an ego I have to deal and it makes me not want to try for certain girls. Girls that you know are done deals basically or girls that should be done deals and you don't want to place any effort into it. I never offer a date or ask her to go out in a "few days". Setting things up feels way too trying, plus there is too much buildup time which gives the girl time to overthink the date. So if you don't want to try and wait, then it's time to implement the Strongarm Finesse Move. This basically entails three things.
Step 1: Ease urself into a situation where u can talk to the girl via friends. Use your standard don juan methods here. You have to have an alternate resource of girls besides the clubs and bars. My resource is all girls that are friends with my friends. This is crucial because the girl will feel like she knows you b/c you have friends in comon. I typically romance all the women that are close to me. I don't have time to go out and find girls, so I just get contacts through my friends etc. AOL IM is a great resource to making the contact w/ a girl ur friend's know etc.
Step 2: Here's where the finesse turns into a strongarm, find out what she's doing, get her to meet you somewhere , include ur friends names, "hey , why don't you and "mutual friend" meet me at a certain bar"
Step 3: Be as Jovial as possible, get her as drunk as she wants, don't feel bad about promoting alcohol, you can do this by consuming massive amounts to encourage more drinking, i can not emphasize how funny you need to be, just crack jokes and try to create an "everyone get drunk" atmosphere
Step 4: Everyone is having a good time, you make the move , "let's all go to my house, or let's all go to her house or your mutual friend's house." Once you get to the location, you do not hesitate, go for the Strong Arm Finesse, "hey come check this out, or lets go in this room" At this point have full confidence and make moves. This 4 step process has worked for me countless times and I don't deal with getting into bs relationships and games. When I have a target, I start the process, boom boom boom, 4 step process, in about 4 hours, I go for it all, I go for the STRONGARM FINESSE!!
I am making this post for all of you guys who seem to have to try too hard to get the girl and you keep trying. Let's be honest, trying at times appears weak and lame. It would be much better if you could just make the call, meet her, and seal the deal, (sealing in this case refers to getting laid). I at times have an ego I have to deal and it makes me not want to try for certain girls. Girls that you know are done deals basically or girls that should be done deals and you don't want to place any effort into it. I never offer a date or ask her to go out in a "few days". Setting things up feels way too trying, plus there is too much buildup time which gives the girl time to overthink the date. So if you don't want to try and wait, then it's time to implement the Strongarm Finesse Move. This basically entails three things.
Step 1: Ease urself into a situation where u can talk to the girl via friends. Use your standard don juan methods here. You have to have an alternate resource of girls besides the clubs and bars. My resource is all girls that are friends with my friends. This is crucial because the girl will feel like she knows you b/c you have friends in comon. I typically romance all the women that are close to me. I don't have time to go out and find girls, so I just get contacts through my friends etc. AOL IM is a great resource to making the contact w/ a girl ur friend's know etc.
Step 2: Here's where the finesse turns into a strongarm, find out what she's doing, get her to meet you somewhere , include ur friends names, "hey , why don't you and "mutual friend" meet me at a certain bar"
Step 3: Be as Jovial as possible, get her as drunk as she wants, don't feel bad about promoting alcohol, you can do this by consuming massive amounts to encourage more drinking, i can not emphasize how funny you need to be, just crack jokes and try to create an "everyone get drunk" atmosphere
Step 4: Everyone is having a good time, you make the move , "let's all go to my house, or let's all go to her house or your mutual friend's house." Once you get to the location, you do not hesitate, go for the Strong Arm Finesse, "hey come check this out, or lets go in this room" At this point have full confidence and make moves. This 4 step process has worked for me countless times and I don't deal with getting into bs relationships and games. When I have a target, I start the process, boom boom boom, 4 step process, in about 4 hours, I go for it all, I go for the STRONGARM FINESSE!!
