"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BobFuest

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Can anyone point me in the direction of some tips on the short term relationship? When your more then just dating but not really LTR material yet. I wonder if there are things that should change a little (i.e. be less mysterious so you can build trust)..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Read the DJ bible? You might as well be asking where the burgers are in McDonalds. ;)
 

BobFuest

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well.. yes i have read the bible. I didnt realize it had anything to do with more then dating. There are "how to keep her" ideas but i dont remember (or have seen) anything past maybe a month or two. Its ok. I really dont care that much. I realize that over thinking these things tends to lead to more failure then anything else. I am done worrying about it. I am just going to have fun.
 

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oh and i was asking for tips here. not from the bible. I am really bad with bbs searches.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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