"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BobFuest

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Can anyone point me in the direction of some tips on the short term relationship? When your more then just dating but not really LTR material yet. I wonder if there are things that should change a little (i.e. be less mysterious so you can build trust)..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read the DJ bible? You might as well be asking where the burgers are in McDonalds. ;)
 

BobFuest

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well.. yes i have read the bible. I didnt realize it had anything to do with more then dating. There are "how to keep her" ideas but i dont remember (or have seen) anything past maybe a month or two. Its ok. I really dont care that much. I realize that over thinking these things tends to lead to more failure then anything else. I am done worrying about it. I am just going to have fun.
 

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oh and i was asking for tips here. not from the bible. I am really bad with bbs searches.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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