"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The start of my ninth grade school.

Are you willing to help me?

  • yes

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • no

    Votes: 2 40.0%

  • Total voters
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Alright,, so I highschool tomorrow. And this is my field report.

(And if any one have any tips, feel free to share)

8-25-10
FIRST DAY OF HIGHSCHOOL.

So, SPEAK, I used your advice and you were right. Everyone seemed pretty nervous. I introduced myself to everyone I didnt know.(pretty much every1. I'm a freshmen with all honors. So my classes are full of uperclassmens). But I did notice alot of guys calling dibs on girls. Strange. I dont wanna be an outcast. So any straight forward tips. Help me!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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O.k I have 2 tips for you!

1. Have fun. I kno everyone is gonna be saying this to you, but man its the truth. Its the first day, u are not gonna be learning shlt alright? Just have fun, hangout, and introduce yourself to new people.

2. Make sure you have an "its no big deal" attitude going into it. Like some d bag was pushing u around the bus on the way to school, laugh about it man cus its no big deal, dont let anyone ruin your first day of high school! And besides everyone else is going to be freaking out as much, probably more, than you are/will be tomorrow. They are going to be too busy worrying about themselves tomorrow to even notice, let alone care, if you look nervous or do something stupid ok?

You'll do great, enjoy every moment. High school goes by fast man!

Speak

P.S and let us know how things go!
 

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8-26-10. Second Day Of School.

Not much happened. I was very friendly. Conversating with people I didn't know.
When it comes to picking up girls, I'm not bad, but not the best. Yesterday I met this girl in my principle of business class, so I tried her first. She's a JR.(go figure everyone in their is except me, and mike). So um, I tried to spit game(I don't know how to kino). But um yeah, I tried to game her up.
CONVO
me:Hey girl, you're cute and I'm cute. Lets skip past the games
her:Not interested.
Yea not a good way to start.
 

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Hey man first of all that takes balls, and I don't kno if you are serious in that post bust if u are then I have to complement you on the size of your balls (no homo.) I do want to say that if you use that line like a joke, and she knows for SURE that you are joking and playing and stuff its all good (if u think u can pull it off) things like that take trial and error. But it sounds like you were serious when you said that, I'll be straight up thats creepy bro. You sound like one of the guys from Jersey shore or maybe that black guy on that youtube video "hey baby whats your number."

Don't focus so much on "spittin game" and sh1t. You're a freshman, u have no game. You should really focus on having fun with girls and being "the great catch" make them work for you. Please read the Bible it will help you a lot.

I am glad to hear your day went well and nice work conversating with strangers!

SPEAK
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3rd day of school.

So, i realized after day two, that spitting game wasnt going to be my strongest point. Or at least not yet. So, i started my third day, with yet another attitude. I wanted to be friendlier than before. I want people to know me, but not as just some kid. I went to school, and for the most part i was myself.I got to school, and i was with one of my friends. We were both a lil tired from our football game the night before. And that turned out to be a good thing, we had girls coming up and congratulatin us.
 

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is their any way i can make my post longer???
 

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Have you read the Djb, book of pook or anything yet? I don't really make sense of you.. You got the balls to say "me:Hey girl, you're cute and I'm cute. Lets skip past the games." But you don't seem as confident as that in any other post.

I guess I should assume you're not a troll, altough it wouldn't surprised me. If you want us to help you, you have to do certain things.

Read the DJ bible
Looking throught your posts and it doesn't seem like you take the advice given to you. Get out of that mindset of yours and trust us!
Make your posts longer and much more detailed.
 
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