"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The "sneaky fvckers" theory...

Bonhomme

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In his study of apes, Maslow found that the "alpha males" did not get most of the action. While the alphas were fighting for the top spot, the "beta" "sneaky fvckers' were nailing the available women left, right, and center.

In other words, "chest beating" prowess is not the end-all and be-all of male sexual value: there's something to be said for cleverness.

For some reason this makes me think of a personal ad some guy ran in the fall entitled "Has your turkey gone hunting?"

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The sneaky fvckers equate to pickup artists.

guys that use their intelligence instead of aggressiveness to get laid.
 

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:crackup: Kiss! This is the funniest "tip" I have read in a long time.

I don't think I am a sneaky ****er, but I guess I am. I got two chest beaters kicked out of our club on Saturday, they desrved it too. They were NOT alpha though, so I think this is partially wrong.
 

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Being clever was an obstical in this area.. That was my problem right from the word go.

As David D said a hell of a lot of the guys who come to this stuff are pretty intelligent guys.

We learn to be 'sneaky fvckers' and suddenly guys who were c0ck of the walk a few years ago lose out to us.

Still alpha male is the way to go and as I keep saying in OUR species alpha male and tough guy are not the same thing.

Some tough guys are alpha. Some are not.

Some alpha guys are tough. Some are not.

It just so happens that the two traits have a tendancy to develop together as a result of similar social conditioning causing them.


What we do is learn to be alpha and screw fighting folks because it would screw up our dashing good looks (or rather screw them up even more ;) as few PUAs are actually good looking - else they'd probibly get some on their own without having ever found this material).

In fact with all of our tactics and things we are pretty blo0dy sneaky ;)

Well not as sneaky as the Ross Jeffries camp. I get WAY more satisfaction out of being attractive than I do out of the SS stuff though ;)


Hell That's it! You've solved it

* eureaka moment *

This sneaky beta male thing is why speed seduction practitioners actually get laid!
 

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DJ Tips is for sharing tips - discussions of this sort are better suited in DJ Discussion.

Moved to DJD.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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