"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Smile

theboxer5

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I've read the SoSuave Advice about the Smile. Do you practice the smile in the mirror each day and use it in the real world?

I have a little crooked front tooth so I would do a small smile instead so not to show my slightly crooked tooth.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have a visibly crooked front tooth too, nobody has ever cared about it (including myself). Not smiling comfortably only shows you're insecure about it and draws their attention to it. I don't practice my smile, a good wide natural smile works better than anything that could be practiced.

Stop minding your tooth. A complex will always bother the one who has it more than anyone else.
 

KingofPuss

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Fuggit i feel like i don't have the most charming smile but it works ok. Feel out the woman. Is she shy, kind of insecure? Go for a boyish / sheepish smile, friendly vibes. If she's a bad bish and has a lot of guys flocking to her, I wouldnt smile. I'd just make eye contact and move in, hold the gaze for 1-2 seconds and move in.
 
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