"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The smell of burning rubber and electronics

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Last Thursday, I plugged in and started up an old computer from way back in 1998. I went out of the room for a few minutes while it started up, and came back to smell something like a mix of burning rubber and electronics! (a quick search on google indicates that this may be due to the Power Supply Unit or some other component frying)

I quickly pressed the off button on the computer, unplugged it and took it outside. The smell was... awful.

After two days of airing out my room (opening the window) while I sleep in another room, there are still traces of the smell whenever I walk into my room.

I have two questions though:
1. does anyone know if the smell is harmful?
2. how long do you think the smell will last?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gus

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Yes that is the horrible smell of burning electronics...dunno if it's harmful, I doubt it, but get some Febreze or something...
 

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the smell is not harmful (lol :D ), just open your windows all the way or better yet, open the window in the room next to it and leave the door open so that you create a ....wind...... (i forgot the word, airflow maybe?). it'll help even more. got rid of the major part of the smell in a day.
 

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I just found out that it may have been electrolytic capacitors in the power supply burning and vaporising (thus releasing gas and the smell!).

That is scary :(.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Caesar20 said:
the smell is not harmful (lol :D ), just open your windows all the way or better yet, open the window in the room next to it and leave the door open so that you create a ....wind...... (i forgot the word, airflow maybe?). it'll help even more. got rid of the major part of the smell in a day.
Draft.


God I'm bored.
 
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