"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Skip2mylou Story, with pics!

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most of you guys here remember me

most of you hate me because i sound different.......obviously I dont care, as you can all tell

i dont want to make a long long post about my life, but i do want to tell you all WHY i post here, WHY i keep coming back despite being banned over and over and over (I was pimpin IS easy, The Realest Thing, ToughLove, Real, AFC Savior, and some other names).......i kept everything consistent, i always preach the same advice, and because my IP ban was lifted (for some reason), i keep coming back to spread my word

i really really WANT to help guys who are total losers to become what I have become

its an addiction - to help people, im addicted to it.....i have no problem coming on here for 45 minutes every day and trying to AT LEAST change the life of one person (when it comes to women i mean)

I know of several guys on here who i have helped in at least someway, because i talk to them online on AIM regularly.........DjDan, krazyboy69, Chrizz, and even DASANIWATER (tell me who remembers him??? he was classic), and im also working on Crossboss, he's got issues but i give him advice online anyway

anyway really quickly let me get back on topic - I USED TO BE WHAT ALOT OF GUYS HERE ARE!!!

i used to be a 17 year old virgin who barely ever kissed a girl

i used to be a 19 year old AFC who had sex with 3-5 girls in his life but still knew NOTHING about women and how to deal with them

I WAS THERE, BELIEVE ME

i used to be ugly, i used to be skinny, i used to be creepy as hell, i used to be cute, i used to be ghetto, i used to be preppy.......i used to be almost everything literally


ive made ridiculous progress on my own from being a 17 year old virgin......i did it on my own, never read a single thing on what to do or how to do it......WHY? because i just DID IT, i learned through EXPERIENCE - why do you guys think that i preach that EXPERIENCE IS #1 AND THEORY IS ALL USELESS???!!!

below is 3 pics of me side by side, the pic on the left is me when i was 19, i was ok with girls, but i knew that i wasnt good looking, SO I MADE A CHANGE.......the pics to the right of that are both about 6 months later.........at this point, alot of good looking girls considered me cute and ****able - this is a big part of why i have had alot of success ever since changing how i looked, it also gave me ALOT of confidence.....yes my looks gave me confidence, looks matter, its a fact in MY life

http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/HUGEchange.jpg

next pic: same deal, you simply see a change from a creepy geek that i was to being more confident and better with women:

http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/CHANGE.jpg



and guys, as time went on, i just learned how to dress, how to act, THROUGH MY OWN EXPERIENCES - you can look up my old screen names, and look at me fight fight fight some of these guys who's mindsets im trying to change!!

around 20/21 years old, i looked like this, and i got laid ALOT, i went from 10 girls, to 20, to 40, to 60 in a span of about 2 years, because i had the look, and the confidence, AND the EXPERIENCE (which i will always preach, forever and ever):

http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/formyspace.jpg
http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/skip2mylou781_25693427.jpg
http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/skip2mylou781_23148498.jpg


this is all before i found sosuave by the way

i then had a gf i fell in love with, she ****ed me up mentally badly.....i became depressed and an alcoholic, i drank every day for months........i still hooked up with lotsa new girls, and still drank, both are an addiction.........i had fun with it though! i think if you are having fun doing what you are doing, then just DO IT.........i drank everyday because i went to clubs/parties/drank with girls, it was awesome fun!

and u wonder why i came on to sosuave with the skip2mylou781 threads that i did - i was so ****in excited about all this shyt that i was learning, i actually APPLIED C+F, Push/Pull, Gunwitch, and it worked so well, i was literally in love with all of this "top secret" advice, i got laid alot because of it!

i have had alot of girlfriends who I was able to literally control, **** on demand, and make cry (if i wanted to), trust me guys, once you do learn, it is ALL ABOUT PUSH/PULL, do a search for it (i talked about it alot too in my skip2mlou781 days)


i just want you guys to know, even though u hate my style (or love it), you think im an idiot, u think i act like a 13 year old, i just want u to know that most hot girls (and women) LOVE a guy whos just out there and acts all fun crazy and sexual, you wont believe me till u have the experience i had. below r a couple pics of chicks that i ****ed who i got due to my "idiot" attitude:

http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/fhgfhf.jpg
http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/l_ad505b7a3b54720c8dca4b51745d990d.jpg
http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/l_ed4bcfc32c80ca6c679f4bb5f64c3a01.jpg

that 3rd one, thats one of my gf's right now, and thanks to all of my knowledge, i actually believe that i have love with her, thats what u get when u play the game and play it hard!!! experience = knowledge = perfect girl to possibly marry, who woulda ****in thunk it???

me and her, loving each other:

http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/ZhenyaMasha015.jpg
http://i154.photobucket.com/albums/s280/skip2mylou781/ZhenyaMasha017.jpg




if you guys who need help ignore this, you are going to be destined to be total chumps, you gotta learn from others who used to be in your position - and thats me

THE END
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Post some pics of hot chicks you're dating, not pics of yourself without tshirt. I am tired of admiring your body.
 

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Not that I'm sceptical or anything. But you look like 90% of the frat boys on my campus, and from what I've heard, they don't really get laid all that much.

Oh and the pics of the 3 girls, I just think its coincidential how the only one you have a pic with is not nearly as hot as the other two.

I may be wrong, but I think I'm fairly good at sniffing out BS....even if this is real, there's no message behind it, nothing helpful.

But whatever....do what you gotta do.
 
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L777 said:
Not that I'm sceptical or anything. But you look like 90% of the frat boys on my campus, and from what I've heard, they don't really get laid all that much.

Oh and the pics of the 3 girls, I just think its coincidential how the only one you have a pic with is not nearly as hot as the other two.

I may be wrong, but I think I'm fairly good at sniffing out BS....even if this is real, there's no message behind it, nothing helpful.

But whatever....do what you gotta do.

seriously, u need to stop hating on me cuz i never did anything bad to u or to anyone else on this site

remember that things are different in England compared to America......im sure i wouldnt have as much success with my attitude in england, i agree with u there
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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good post, i like your "i dont give a ****" attitude, and that you enjoy helping other Dj's...girls look pretty hot..i woulda kept girls number 1 and 2 around rather than girl 3..they both have bangin bodies, esp number 2 (it might be the pic and her dress)

some tips from one dj to another to improve yourself...im not hating, just wanna help you. Quit wearing your hat like that, it makes you look like a total douche and classy girls don't like that. Kinda gives off a poser/try hard look. Your clothes look good but the hat kinda ruins everything. It also seems like you try to act 'hard' in some of your pics by not smiling...i agree ,smiling a lot is kinda dorky, but a ****y smirk makes you look 10x better.

everything else is good to me, keep on sarging playa
 

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Its cool that your sharing your story with us. I find it lacking in any sort of specific advice though (i'm assuming you save that for aim on a situational basis) Good review of the basic concepts though, having confidence, getting experience, trying different things out, changing your apperance, etc all good stuff.
 
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What do you mean you learnt how to dress? I have no problems with it but chavved up Bart Simpson does not = insta-player.

it means dress hot, dress in a way that girls think is hot ,its simple
 
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EFFORT said:
Its cool that your sharing your story with us. I find it lacking in any sort of specific advice though (i'm assuming you save that for aim on a situational basis) Good review of the basic concepts though, having confidence, getting experience, trying different things out, changing your apperance, etc all good stuff.

honestly, i dont know how many times i have to repeat my advice

look up skip2mylou781, AFC Savior, pimpin IS easy, Toughlove, alot of advice in my old threads, they just get bumped down so far or locked cuz trolls love to invade my shyt
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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honestly, i dont know how many times i have to repeat my advice

look up skip2mylou781, AFC Savior, pimpin IS easy, Toughlove, alot of advice in my old threads, they just get bumped down so far or locked cuz trolls love to invade my shyt
yeah i usually just stay in health and fitness so i missed a lot of your threads. Only one that comes to mind right now is some big flamed up look thread.
 

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Tear Gas said:
some tips from one dj to another to improve yourself...im not hating, just wanna help you. Quit wearing your hat like that, it makes you look like a total douche and classy girls don't like that. Kinda gives off a poser/try hard look. Your clothes look good but the hat kinda ruins everything. It also seems like you try to act 'hard' in some of your pics by not smiling...i agree ,smiling a lot is kinda dorky, but a ****y smirk makes you look 10x better.
I agree one million percent, Tear Gas said it perfectly.

Especially about the hat. Lose the poser look.

You looked best in that collage in the pic on the bottom right in the uni hoodie, I was like "heyyyyy." :yes:

The rest, I was like :eek:
 
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I agree one million percent, Tear Gas said it perfectly.

Especially about the hat. Lose the poser look.

You looked best in that collage in the pic on the bottom right in the uni hoodie, I was like "heyyyyy." :yes:

The rest, I was like :eek:

honestly, i had alot of cuties loving my hat look
 

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seriously, u need to stop hating on me cuz i never did anything bad to u or to anyone else on this site

remember that things are different in England compared to America......im sure i wouldnt have as much success with my attitude in england, i agree with u there
Ummm....I'm in America. Pretty much every girl I've slept with here tells me they don't like the "backwards-baseball-hat-slightly-hiphop-clothes-wearing-budlight-chugging-gym-rat-frat-boy" style. They seem to go for my accent though. ;)
 

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Good post Skip.

If even one of the nerds and creeps on here gets a hand job out of this then you are a miracle worker...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ummm....I'm in America. Pretty much every girl I've slept with here tells me they don't like the "backwards-baseball-hat-slightly-hiphop-clothes-wearing-budlight-chugging-gym-rat-frat-boy" style. They seem to go for my accent though. ;)

i cant argue with me

when i used to wear my hat, i used to hook up with pretty cute girls.......u cant explain some things, so dont even waste your thoughts on it buddy
 

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Play on, playa...

Tear Gas said:
some tips from one dj to another to improve yourself...im not hating, just wanna help you. Quit wearing your hat like that, it makes you look like a total douche and classy girls don't like that. Kinda gives off a poser/try hard look. Your clothes look good but the hat kinda ruins everything. It also seems like you try to act 'hard' in some of your pics by not smiling...i agree ,smiling a lot is kinda dorky, but a ****y smirk makes you look 10x better.
Well, the wigga look may still be "in" where he's at. Which, I'm guessing is somewhere in the Deep South, judging by all the wood panelling and the fact that G's aren't played out yet. So, if it ain't broke, why fix it?

I say just keep preachin' your game, Skip. I don't know why you have so many haters, but I always thought you were 2 legit 2 quit. ;)

Now, I don't think all your game would work that well for everyone everywhere, but I do believe it works for you in your area with very young hotties who are basically just looking for a cute guy with an edge.

BTW, I can also tell that you are of German descent.
 

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i cant argue with me

when i used to wear my hat, i used to hook up with pretty cute girls.......u cant explain some things, so dont even waste your thoughts on it buddy
Goddamn you're smooth. You've eradicated the need to even make sense in your posts now. Bravo sir!

Oh and PS. For anyone that labels me a hater, I'd just like to distance myself from hip-hop influenced slang or terminology. I think of myself more as a fan of skip, same way I'm a fan of the boss from The Office (don't know the name of the American one): he's there to be chuckled at, pitied, but not taken seriously. Why would I hate one of the funniest geezers on the forum?
 

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Goddamn you're smooth. You've eradicated the need to even make sense in your posts now. Bravo sir!
while you are typing this he is leaving the door to go on a date with a hot chick.

Stop hating and learn. He surely has helped me...
 

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he's there to be chuckled at, pitied, but not taken seriously. Why would I hate one of the funniest geezers on the forum?
I haven't read one thing he's written that I couldn't see working in the right location and demographics.

What's so hard to believe that girls go for this Eminem knock-off? Seriously, I think you guys overestimate girls age 16-19.

And believe it or not, fratholes do get laid...by a lotta hot sohos. They may be tools, but I'm just stating facts here. You add money, trendy clothes, alcohol, a snarky attitude & social status on campus = spread legs. In a way, PUAs are actually sort of backwards-engineering this and arriving at the same conclusions too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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