Maximus Rex
Banned
This gem comes via Brian Armstrong from the www.leykisonline.com board. He basically breakdowns the "hot chick mindset," and eloquently explains why we shouldn't be imtimated by them.
THis is a myth, since hot chicks have it too easy, and never become strong women; they have low self-esteem since they're identied SOLELY on their external appearance, and so they get self-conscious and sensitive about it-- and hence FEEL UGLY, which makes them SUPER-easy to neg!
Note how the typical "strong woman" is usually a fat, fugly old b*tch, since she had to overcome the ADVERSITY of being a fat ugly YOUNG *****, and develop her personality and other strengths; meanwhile the hotties grow up spoiled by their looks-- as well as feeling LOVED only for their looks... and SICK of it, wanting a REAL man who'll treat her like she feels, i.e. like crap.
Meanwhile, we at Leykis 101 know that "intimidation by hot chicks" is a VERY popular illusion that guys have, since they think LOGICALLY-- i.e. chicks go for the hottest guy they can find, and hot chicks must be the pickiest since they have the most power and most guys hitting on them, and so they'd NEVER go for a guy like me since I'm not the hottest guy around. The uglier ones must be easier, since I'm more in their league, so I'll hit on them."
NOT TRUE! This is known as the "Halo effect" which hot chicks have, that makes them seem perfect and unattainable; but in reality it's NOT about how others see you-- it's about how they see THEMSELVES. And in reality, the hottest chicks tend to see themselves as being THE MOST FLAWED.
Hot chicks generally don't KNOW that they're hot-- after all, the power of hotness is SOLELY based on subjection to the approval of others; rather, they simply attract a lot of ATTENTION and FOCUS ON THEIR APPEARANCE-- which makes them SELF-CONSCIOUS, and therefore have low self-esteem. It's not an inner strength like character, wit or personality; a chick can be DEAD and still hot.
Rather, beauty, being only an EXTERNAL characteristic, is a double-edge sword-- but most guys only see the edge that's facing THEM (which is generally dull), and miss the low-self esteem edge that's facing HER.
Meanwhile the not-so-hotties are forced to recognize their INNER strengths, and so have HIGHER self-esteem than the SUPER-hotties.
In contrast, a super-hot chick is generally just an empty shell of a person, since they develop in recognition ENTIRELY by the exterior.
And naturally the hot chicks get STARVED of this type of feedback on their other strenghts, and feel even more flawed, inadequate and inferior.
In fact, this is why Tom says to go for the 9's rather than 10's, since the 10's are SO insecure and perfectionist over their looks, that it causes problems in the relationship.
And so they are BORN ATTENTION-*****S with no identity of their own. They get ENTIRELY identified by their looks, not their personality; and so they fall right for someone who acts like they DON'T care abou ther looks, and who tells them what to do.
Actually the hottest chicks often have the LOWEST self-esteem, but guys are simply so INTIMIDATED by a walking supermodel-looking chick, that they go for the first guy who asked.
Like when I was in high school, I had a friend who was an ugly Jewish guy who had a beard, glasses, the works; and we were out riding bikes, and passe dby the HOTTEST CHICK sitting alone in a car, looking at the lake. Of course he says that he wants to go hitting on her, and I'm thinking "he's crazy--this chick is TOTALLY out of even my league, let alone his!" (I used to think it was all about looks, and I was the big jock with the golden mane etc).
Anyway he starts STALKING her, and then talking-- and they hit it off; even eventually proceeds to talking about sex with her-- and she ends up his gf like it was NOTHING.
Normally, all of these things would turn a chick right off-- or SCARE her off-- but this chick was SO hot that she had low self-esteem, and naturally clung to the first guy who showed some balls.
So the moral is that if you treat hot chicks like crap, then they'll fall right for it, since you'll be a very RARE JEWEL that's she's looking for: a guy who DOESN'T roll over like a little lapdog wanting to worship the ****ing goddess! They FEEL like crap, so if you TREAT them like gods then THEY'LL HATE IT-- but if you TREAT them like crap, then they'll LOVE it... and you.
Seriously, you ever see an ugly guy with the HOTTEST chicks- and wonder how he does it?
NOW YOU KNOW!
THis is a myth, since hot chicks have it too easy, and never become strong women; they have low self-esteem since they're identied SOLELY on their external appearance, and so they get self-conscious and sensitive about it-- and hence FEEL UGLY, which makes them SUPER-easy to neg!
Note how the typical "strong woman" is usually a fat, fugly old b*tch, since she had to overcome the ADVERSITY of being a fat ugly YOUNG *****, and develop her personality and other strengths; meanwhile the hotties grow up spoiled by their looks-- as well as feeling LOVED only for their looks... and SICK of it, wanting a REAL man who'll treat her like she feels, i.e. like crap.
Meanwhile, we at Leykis 101 know that "intimidation by hot chicks" is a VERY popular illusion that guys have, since they think LOGICALLY-- i.e. chicks go for the hottest guy they can find, and hot chicks must be the pickiest since they have the most power and most guys hitting on them, and so they'd NEVER go for a guy like me since I'm not the hottest guy around. The uglier ones must be easier, since I'm more in their league, so I'll hit on them."
NOT TRUE! This is known as the "Halo effect" which hot chicks have, that makes them seem perfect and unattainable; but in reality it's NOT about how others see you-- it's about how they see THEMSELVES. And in reality, the hottest chicks tend to see themselves as being THE MOST FLAWED.
Hot chicks generally don't KNOW that they're hot-- after all, the power of hotness is SOLELY based on subjection to the approval of others; rather, they simply attract a lot of ATTENTION and FOCUS ON THEIR APPEARANCE-- which makes them SELF-CONSCIOUS, and therefore have low self-esteem. It's not an inner strength like character, wit or personality; a chick can be DEAD and still hot.
Rather, beauty, being only an EXTERNAL characteristic, is a double-edge sword-- but most guys only see the edge that's facing THEM (which is generally dull), and miss the low-self esteem edge that's facing HER.
Meanwhile the not-so-hotties are forced to recognize their INNER strengths, and so have HIGHER self-esteem than the SUPER-hotties.
In contrast, a super-hot chick is generally just an empty shell of a person, since they develop in recognition ENTIRELY by the exterior.
And naturally the hot chicks get STARVED of this type of feedback on their other strenghts, and feel even more flawed, inadequate and inferior.
In fact, this is why Tom says to go for the 9's rather than 10's, since the 10's are SO insecure and perfectionist over their looks, that it causes problems in the relationship.
And so they are BORN ATTENTION-*****S with no identity of their own. They get ENTIRELY identified by their looks, not their personality; and so they fall right for someone who acts like they DON'T care abou ther looks, and who tells them what to do.
Actually the hottest chicks often have the LOWEST self-esteem, but guys are simply so INTIMIDATED by a walking supermodel-looking chick, that they go for the first guy who asked.
Like when I was in high school, I had a friend who was an ugly Jewish guy who had a beard, glasses, the works; and we were out riding bikes, and passe dby the HOTTEST CHICK sitting alone in a car, looking at the lake. Of course he says that he wants to go hitting on her, and I'm thinking "he's crazy--this chick is TOTALLY out of even my league, let alone his!" (I used to think it was all about looks, and I was the big jock with the golden mane etc).
Anyway he starts STALKING her, and then talking-- and they hit it off; even eventually proceeds to talking about sex with her-- and she ends up his gf like it was NOTHING.
Normally, all of these things would turn a chick right off-- or SCARE her off-- but this chick was SO hot that she had low self-esteem, and naturally clung to the first guy who showed some balls.
So the moral is that if you treat hot chicks like crap, then they'll fall right for it, since you'll be a very RARE JEWEL that's she's looking for: a guy who DOESN'T roll over like a little lapdog wanting to worship the ****ing goddess! They FEEL like crap, so if you TREAT them like gods then THEY'LL HATE IT-- but if you TREAT them like crap, then they'll LOVE it... and you.
Seriously, you ever see an ugly guy with the HOTTEST chicks- and wonder how he does it?
NOW YOU KNOW!