"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Situation Gets Millions for Being an Alpha/DJ

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http://tv.yahoo.com/blog/savvy-situation-mtv-star-turns-fame-into-fortune--1490

I find this interesting. There's no doubt that Mike is part of The secret society
http://www.bristollair.com/inner-game/nature-and-reality/secret-society.html

Its becoming increasingly more difficult to be natural and good with women. It wasn't this hard 10 years ago, 20 years ago, etc. Being able to get women is an art and that's why it can get you paid. (PUA bootcamps, this guy, etc)

It goes to show how lopsided the dating arena in America is. Women have the complete advantage. The dating game is rigged from the get-go.

Just being able to have success with women in today's society is almost unheard of. The fact that this guy gets so much attention, fame and fortune just for being a player speaks volumes to what is going on in today's dating scene. Most guys struggle and are lonely until they find one decent piece of azz that would fuk him more than once and settle down
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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People also make millions off human trafficking, selling drugs, genocide, manufacturing landmines, pushing propaganda, etc. Yet you decide some D-list reality TV star getting laid is why life isn't fair. You know the old saying...

boo f*cking hoo
 

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People also make millions off human trafficking, selling drugs, genocide, manufacturing landmines, pushing propaganda, etc. Yet you decide some D-list reality TV star getting laid is why life isn't fair. You know the old saying...

boo f*cking hoo
I'm not even saying I'm angry about it. Calm your ass down. I explained how it was a symptom of how lopsided the dating scene in America is.
 

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The Situation is a perfect example of what "douche bag game" is. Which is becoming extremely popular lately, but has also proved to work wonders.

The girls he picks up are debatable though. He has a lot of talk about "grenades" but any girl I've ever seen him bring home was pretty damn ugly. The best he ever brought back with him was probably like 6.5.

In any case, the man is now becoming synonymous with the word "inner game". I can respect him, his mindset, and what he does. But I don't think the man deserves to be glorified.
 

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The girls he picks up are debatable though.
To whom ???? and why ???

He has a lot of talk about "grenades"
He has female tendencies and insecurities.
but any girl I've ever seen him bring home was pretty damn ugly. The best he ever brought back with him was probably like 6.5.
irrelevant.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drum&Bass said:
irrelevant.
You love fatties, as illustrated in your "thick curvy girls" thread. So yes to you bringing home an ug is irrelevant because you do it all the time.

As for as "the situation", just another sign of the dumbing down of America. When a guy like this is this popular and successful, what does that tell you about the state of our country?
 

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cordon how is it that you are NOT banned yet ??

When a guy like this is this popular and successful, what does that tell you about the state of our country?
Whats your issue with "Situation" being successful ?

How come the only thing you seem to do well is negatively judge other people ?
 

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Why are people so angry and judgmental about success?
Isn't it more productive to break down what makes success into
something that can be modeled? The situation projects fun
and confidence. By the time the girls focus on the muscle or
anything else they are already hooked. I have huge confidence in
the workplace. I never worry about getting fired, and manage to
get raises when others (equally competent) scrap. I'm not in any
secret society to do this, I just have the confidence. So I can see
how this could translate over to women - just haven't gotten there
quite yet.
 

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cordon how is it that you are NOT banned yet ??

Whats your issue with "Situation" being successful ?

How come the only thing you seem to do well is negatively judge other people ?
I have no problem with the guy...more power to him. But in reality...the situation is a made up no talent reality star from NY. What does he bring to humanity in a positive way for him to get this kind of notoriety and success? Nothing. Yet this just follows what has been going on in this country the past 20 years-the dumbing down of society with the internet, sex, music, reality TV, etc. Meanwhile the Federal Reserve is stealing our money and top companies, opening our borders, taking this country to ruin, but guys like you don't even realize it because you are too fixated on getting laid tonight like your hero..."The Situation."
 

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I have no problem with the guy...more power to him.
ok

What does he bring to humanity in a positive way for him to get this kind of notoriety and success? Nothing.
Please provide evidence that you know for a fact that he contributes NOTHING AT ALL to humanity...or anyone else that is in his life that you don't see on television, like his family and friends that he might help with his new found success.

no talent reality star from NY. What does he bring to humanity in a positive way for him to get this kind of notoriety and success? Nothing.
What makes you so special that you deserve anything that you have ?

the Federal Reserve is stealing our money and top companies, opening our borders, taking this country to ruin
Please provide proof.

but guys like you don't even realize it because you are too fixated on getting laid tonight like your hero..."The Situation."
Please provide proof.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Look, there have always been people like this guy around. Again, good for him. But its when we start glorifying guys like this, using them as roll models, that I have a problem with it. And its getting worse and worse. Snooki, reality stars, youtube stars, just dumbing us down man.

IF you want a roll model, I suggest this guy. Now THIS is a guy to look up to!

http://tatewatkins.org/post/988662739/im-working-cheryl
 

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cordoncordon said:
I have no problem with the guy...more power to him. But in reality...the situation is a made up no talent reality star from NY. What does he bring to humanity in a positive way for him to get this kind of notoriety and success? Nothing. Yet this just follows what has been going on in this country the past 20 years-the dumbing down of society with the internet, sex, music, reality TV, etc. Meanwhile the Federal Reserve is stealing our money and top companies, opening our borders, taking this country to ruin, but guys like you don't even realize it because you are too fixated on getting laid tonight like your hero..."The Situation."
Wow someone is jealous.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
Please provide evidence that you know for a fact that he contributes NOTHING AT ALL to humanity...or anyone else that is in his life that you don't see on television, like his family and friends that he might help with his new found success.
Please provide evidence that Jersey Shore as a TV show contributes something worthwhile to society and the human race.

Take your time. I'm very patient.

Also, as far as the Federal Reserve "stealing money". They don't steal as much as devaluate currency. Proof, the $700 billion bailout and the trillions spent on wars. When you print that much money and throw it in the system, each dollar becomes worth less. Also called inflation. Not that the money's worth anything because it's not backed by anything. It's called Fiat currency.

The term fiat money is used to mean:

* any money declared by a government to be legal tender.[1]
* state-issued money which is neither legally convertible to any other thing, nor fixed in value in terms of any objective standard.[2]
* money without intrinsic value.[3]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fiat_money

Printing money and hyper inflation:
Although there is a great deal of debate about the root causes of hyperinflation, it becomes visible when there is an unchecked increase in the money supply (or drastic debasement of coinage)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyperinflation
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Please provide evidence that Jersey Shore as a TV show contributes something worthwhile to society and the human race.

Take your time. I'm very patient.

Also, as far as the Federal Reserve "stealing money". They don't steal as much as devaluate currency. Proof, the $700 billion bailout and the trillions spent on wars. When you print that much money and throw it in the system, each dollar becomes worth less. Also called inflation. Not that the money's worth anything because it's not backed by anything. It's called Fiat currency.



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fiat_money

Printing money and hyper inflation:


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyperinflation
I wouldn't argue that it brings anything "worthwhile". But it is bringing awareness to the issue of the direction society is going.

I find it funny how I hear bad comments from the show from many girls I know, yet they are just as b!tchy, attention seeking, and slvtty as every girl on there.
 

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Please provide evidence that Jersey Shore as a TV show contributes something worthwhile to society and the human race.

Take your time. I'm very patient.
Sure....look at the ratings. Its a show that people ENJOY watching. There is little to no consequences when someone watches this show and is entertained for 30 mins.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sure....look at the ratings. Its a show that people ENJOY watching. There is little to no consequences when someone watches this show and is entertained for 30 mins.
Speak for yourself. I have seen it and am disgusted. Ok maybe disgusted is too strong of a word, but disappointed that something so idiotic and pointless could be so popular. I mean snookie? As a role model and celebrity? What is going on??? :eek:

The only people that could possibly like the show are dumb downed, lower to middle class white trash. And I'm white and grew up as middle class as could be. Excuse my language, but you have just proven my point with your statement. This is exactly the kind of stuff being fed to the masses today so that when the powers that be are stealing America from its citizens, they could care less, all they want to do is to be "entertained" for a short while, then on to the next.

By accepting what we are told and experience life can be easier. There is the social pressure to 'fit in', which is immensely strong in most cultures. Questioning the status quo carries the danger of ostracism, possibly persecution. This aspect has a strong link with politics. People doing well under the current system like drum or "the situation" are not inclined to look favorably on those who question the system.
 
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Sure....look at the ratings. Its a show that people ENJOY watching. There is little to no consequences when someone watches this show and is entertained for 30 mins.
People also enjoy cocaine but that doesn't mean it contributes to society.

Jersey Shore makes you dumber every time you watch it.
 

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People also enjoy cocaine but that doesn't mean it contributes to society.
Alle Gory, I think your pretty dumb for comparing a television show to an illegal drug that can potentially ruin your life.

I think your even dumber for quoting me and not reading the ENTIRE quote.
 

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TIC said:
http://tv.yahoo.com/blog/savvy-situation-mtv-star-turns-fame-into-fortune--1490

I find this interesting. There's no doubt that Mike is part of The secret society
http://www.bristollair.com/inner-game/nature-and-reality/secret-society.html

Its becoming increasingly more difficult to be natural and good with women. It wasn't this hard 10 years ago, 20 years ago, etc. Being able to get women is an art and that's why it can get you paid. (PUA bootcamps, this guy, etc)

It goes to show how lopsided the dating arena in America is. Women have the complete advantage. The dating game is rigged from the get-go.

Just being able to have success with women in today's society is almost unheard of. The fact that this guy gets so much attention, fame and fortune just for being a player speaks volumes to what is going on in today's dating scene. Most guys struggle and are lonely until they find one decent piece of azz that would fuk him more than once and settle down
It's fascinating that your ideal conception of an Alpha Male includes "The Situation"

That really speaks volumes about where you are at
 

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Sure....look at the ratings. Its a show that people ENJOY watching. There is little to no consequences when someone watches this show and is entertained for 30 mins.
Except you fail to realize this is a MTV show. Lots of elementary school, middle school and high school kids watch this sh!t. So when they see things like Snookie, the Situation etc. some of them decide to follow them as role models. Sure it's fun now but when you see Snookie wannabees in the streets and a generation of guys trying to be douchebags because they think that's what's getting the situation laid.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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