The single most important thing...

[zorg198]

I can tell from exprience that i begged, plead and asked for a third second chance. nothing came out of it. a lot of us don't realize but she don't care , her mind is on another dude... she detached long way before she dumped you.

It hurts? well yeah... something you can do about it? of course.. NC and walk away. who has the power? who gives a sh1t? she's the past. she dosent deserve my time . she can die and i won't care. focus on yourself, invest your time to get better, improve, find another hot babe. i though my ex is the most beautiful girl in the world , after she dumped me i thought i will never be ok . after one month i saw all the girls outside and said , holly cr@p...

Joe.

 

[zekko]

Who cares who dumps who? The important thing is to retain your self respect. There's nothing wrong with caring about somebody, just as long as you don't invest your whole self in her, so that when things go south you lose your self esteem. It's all about balance, and that will come with experience. Relationships usually have a limited shelf life. If a relationship fails, you can't let that affect how you feel about yourself.