One thing that I have found that really works is the silent treatment. If a girl makes a mistake (Mine started to like another guy), you dump em, tell them you want it all or nothin. Then just ignore em. Sometimes it takes a week for em to come back. Sometimes it takes a couple years, but most of the time they do. And plus, if they don't come back, then you really don't need em. And if you gf fvcked up real good the first time and made a big mistake, when they come back, you said said "hell no bltch, I don't want your as*." its fun to see their reaction. So ya, tell me if you all have tried this method, because it works for me everytime. the girl I broke up with a week ago just came crawlin back today. it was great
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The silent treatment
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
buckwheat18
Don Juan
good job may the force be with you...lol
downfallofdisbelief
Don Juan
heh, I use it all the time w/ my g/f if she does something that is disrespectful or of the likes. I'll just ignore her and not say anything to her or maybe walk off or somethin. She'll come back immediately and apoligize. Its great.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
you ever hear about how guys get all pissed off because women never tell them how they feel? they just start acting snobbish towards them, like little girls? That's how you guys are acting, not like men, not like women, like little girls. A male doesn't ignore a problem, he lets the person know about it, and if it persists then you kick the person to the curb.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Nice AFC advice. Why would you want to stop doing something that WORKS, regardless of your personal opinions.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'll ignore girls every once in a while. Its called reasoning, if your girl starts talking about cute guys and then you start ignoring her it doesn't take much to put two and two together, you don't really need a comfirmation if theres enough evidence to support your conclusion
floydtheater07
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
A male doesn't ignore a problem, he lets the person know about it, and if it persists then you kick the person to the curb.
Sometimes ignoring someone is the best way to get the point across.
MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
Don Juan
Originally posted by floydtheater07
Sometimes ignoring someone is the best way to get the point across.
Totally agree. Dont talk, take action! In this case walk away, or the silence treatment so the little broad would learn her lesson also reminding her whos the daddy.
Trust me.
It's not if you win or if you lose, it's how you play the game.
Never truer words.
So if you want to be mad, be mad, it's a great technique, works wonders. If you aren't in it for the end results, but rather just to have fun, then you won't be such an emo bit<h.
I am of course not judging anyone. Do whatever you want.
Just saying, have fun doing it.
It's not if you win or if you lose, it's how you play the game.
Never truer words.
So if you want to be mad, be mad, it's a great technique, works wonders. If you aren't in it for the end results, but rather just to have fun, then you won't be such an emo bit<h.
I am of course not judging anyone. Do whatever you want.
Just saying, have fun doing it.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.