"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the silent treatment, wisdom and advice please!

benzo_72

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Ok so here it is, i have been seeing this woman for about 4 months now, it started out as having a fling but turned into feelings on both ends. So her and I hung out the other night, did our thing (sex) and went our seperate ways. So later that night she text me, i reply and to my reply she sends a ":)". I have no problem, that meant she was done textinf right? Then an hour later she text me saying "not even so much as a follow up damn girl"?
I thought she was done texting for the night, i respond with "damn girl, had fun with you tonight". Everything was cool, we said goodnight, went to sleep. The next day she was distant and wouldnt text back but a few words, i played it cool and followed her lead and did the same. Last night she text me and seemed grouchy, i asked her if she was and she blew up on me saying that i was giving her the could shoulder. In realality i was just trying to play it cool and followed her lead. So now im getting the silent treatment and would like some advice please. I already text her saying sorry if she took it that way twice, and i tried to call her today and nothing. What couls i text her to say that im not going to play your little game, or should i just say nothing??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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youngmack

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Say nothing. Move on and next her. Shes not interested just playing games,dont waste your time with an attention wh0re like this
 

Purefilth

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let her initiate the next contact.

NO MORE GROVELLING!!! makes you look weak man.

when she does, just act like all is normal, just be a bit withdrawn.
 
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