"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The signs of interest everyone talks about here are subconcious right?

BlahUgh

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You know the signs of attraction commonly talked about on these forums? Which ones are subconcious and which ones are concious? I know eye dilation is subconcious, meaning that the girl can't control it at all. What about hair flipping and smiling though, as well as showing palms and the rest.

Also you know how sometimes you see girls eyes sparkling/glittering when looking at you... is that their pupils dilating? Because now that I think about it, almost every time I've thought a girl liked me, I'd at some point walk past her and see the eye glittering thing, or notice their eyes and sorta somehow figure from the way she was looking that she liked me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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I think they are mostly subconcious. Elaborate on the one with the palms, i've never heard of that. Also, if you feel attraction for the girl, you will sometimes over exagerate on theese signals, especially with eye contact. Thats all AFC stuff for me now. I dont even think for a minute if she likes me or not. I know all women like me, if she doesnt then fvck her, she's not a women and I dont need her!
 

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Most are subconscious women have been programmed with this since birth so have men. When a guy is interested he will suck in his stomach and push out his chest. Girls
tend to:

-Play with there hair
-Smile allot
-Give eye contact about 80% of the time
-Keep there palms open
-Rub there leg
-Have dilated pupils (so do men) and yes this is the glitter you see in her eyes.
-Wet there lips
-Lower the voice
-Kino she brushes up against you. Especially brushing her tits up against you.

There’s allot more but these are the basics. If a girl is doing these things (NOTE: there all subconscious) it means she’s into you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MercutioTHEGREAT

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
-Kino she brushes up against you. Especially brushing her tits up against you.
hahahahaa that's the one^^:crackup:

God DAMMIT!! Blah i knew that even before i came on this site

girls love to let you know when they like you it's some of they most obvious sh!t in the world.
 

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yeah... the tits thing happened to me before but... how in the world can that be subconscious?!??! LMAO

its like a guy rubbin his shlong on a girl and making it subconscious lol...
 

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while some absolutely ignore you when they want you. why pretend not to like a guy then stare from behind i hate ppl who pretend.
 

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i dont know much, but i can confirm that women will smile ALOT around guys they like

they cant help but do it
 

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
I think they are mostly subconcious. Elaborate on the one with the palms, i've never heard of that. Also, if you feel attraction for the girl, you will sometimes over exagerate on theese signals, especially with eye contact. Thats all AFC stuff for me now. I dont even think for a minute if she likes me or not. I know all women like me, if she doesnt then fvck her, she's not a women and I dont need her!
The palm thing goes - if she flashes her palms or wrists it's supposed to be a subconcious sign of submissiveness or something.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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