EverSure75
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What about the girl who has a boyfriend...has shown interest...had a profile pic with her boyfriend...then crops him out of the pic and just has herself in the new pic. Lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The significance of a "couples profile pic"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
randalljohnson
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Advertise what?
Herself, for whatever reason she has. If you think she's hot, would you hit on her or give her attention if she's showing a couple pic? I personally wouldn't bother.
She's more than likely still seeking with her selfie the male attention she got before BF came along and may not be 100% into him.
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randalljohnson
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I guess we'll see about that. She still posts about me so it's not like the people on her facebook don't see me.
cityboy989
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Just cause a girl may cycle through profile pics and doesn't include you doesn't AUTOMATICALLY mean she's not totally into you, but if she had exes in her pic and she seems to follow the trend as the typical "young female daily facebook user" who enjoys the attention she receives (attention in general, not specifically male attention) I would question why she wouldn't include you in her pic.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Not necessarily as I've known long time established couples to both reach an agreement not to even show they are tied together in a relationship via the "Relationship status". There's this woman I know I met out and about with her boyfriend. Noticed she didn't have too many pictures of him lately, As a whole rarely has any of them together.
She told me she did that on purpose because if they were to ever beak up, they wouldn't want people start asking them questions like, "I noticed your relationship status changed, you and Bill break up?!"
So a lot of couples agree not to do that because they don't want their friends getting up in their business.
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I'm a bit iffy on young couples who claim such things