"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The significance of a "couples profile pic"

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What about the girl who has a boyfriend...has shown interest...had a profile pic with her boyfriend...then crops him out of the pic and just has herself in the new pic. Lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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randalljohnson said:
Advertise what?
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Herself, for whatever reason she has. If you think she's hot, would you hit on her or give her attention if she's showing a couple pic? I personally wouldn't bother.
She's more than likely still seeking with her selfie the male attention she got before BF came along and may not be 100% into him.
 
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billtx49 said:
Herself, for whatever reason she has. If you think she's hot, would you hit on her or give her attention if she's showing a couple pic? I personally wouldn't bother.
She's more than likely still seeking with her selfie the male attention she got before BF came along and may not be 100% into him.
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I guess we'll see about that. She still posts about me so it's not like the people on her facebook don't see me.
 
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randalljohnson said:
I guess we'll see about that. She still posts about me so it's not like the people on her facebook don't see me.
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Just cause a girl may cycle through profile pics and doesn't include you doesn't AUTOMATICALLY mean she's not totally into you, but if she had exes in her pic and she seems to follow the trend as the typical "young female daily facebook user" who enjoys the attention she receives (attention in general, not specifically male attention) I would question why she wouldn't include you in her pic.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LARaiders85 said:
Publicly viewable couples pics serve the same purpose, profile or not. As a general rule and in my experience, it has been a red flag when my girlfriends didn't put up couple pictures. Good looking women will want and expect attention for themselves but if they are loyal they will not mind scaring off some attention in order to protect the relationship via couples pictures.
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Not necessarily as I've known long time established couples to both reach an agreement not to even show they are tied together in a relationship via the "Relationship status". There's this woman I know I met out and about with her boyfriend. Noticed she didn't have too many pictures of him lately, As a whole rarely has any of them together.

She told me she did that on purpose because if they were to ever beak up, they wouldn't want people start asking them questions like, "I noticed your relationship status changed, you and Bill break up?!"

So a lot of couples agree not to do that because they don't want their friends getting up in their business.
 
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Not necessarily as I've known long time established couples to both reach an agreement not to even show they are tied together in a relationship via the "Relationship status". There's this woman I know I met out and about with her boyfriend. Noticed she didn't have too many pictures of him lately, As a whole rarely has any of them together.

She told me she did that on purpose because if they were to ever beak up, they wouldn't want people start asking them questions like, "I noticed your relationship status changed, you and Bill break up?!"

So a lot of couples agree not to do that because they don't want their friends getting up in their business.
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I'm a bit iffy on young couples who claim such things
 
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