Cold approaches, bold moves, blatent come-ons...
They work from time to time and with a certain type of woman (which I don't think I need to describe). There are women who are very receptive to the unhidden display of your desire. There are women who are after the quick ONS just like you are. Many women I've been with required absolutely no work on my part to get into bed.... and for those unchallenging women this tip is not going to be of much use.
but there are more exotic women out there. more interesting women. hotter women. smarter women. women that you might actually want some kind of relationship with. maybe.... an LTR. (personally i find a hard time paying retail for what everyone else gets wholesale, but if you do find a woman worth your time...)
for these women they derive so much pleasure from the chase.... from the seduction that you craft around her. they want to believe that they are making the decisions and choices about their desire for you. they want to notice you slowly, subtly, and with an aura of mystery that gets them wondering. they want to think about you and build up a grand picture of you in their mind based on the limited hints you have given. after you have their attention they want things to develop in kind of an accidental way, almost like destiny had its hand in your comming together.
for this to happen. for you to really get deep into her psyche you need to be indirect at first. USE THE SIDE DOOR.
in order to do this you have to think about the whole thing as not an approach, number close, or pick-up....but as a casual conversation... just making friends. enter her world the first time with an excuse, or from another angle such as one of your friends or hers, or perhaps some business you are attending to.
this doesn't have anything to do with your alpha supremacy or your inability to show your power by making a bold move. if you wanted you could do that at anytime. but to do so will almost always break the spell and create yet another short lived relationship.
dont fear to express your sexuality but know when to show it.
engage her in conversation but keep it abstract, casual, and innocent. throw in hints of your sexual and bad side but make her wonder what you are by remaining on the surface and just talking about relavant things. make her wonder.
then mystery close instead of going for the number.
if you play up the mystery, hot/cold, and take it slow she'll fall for you way more than if you try to make it quick and express your feelings and emotions verbally and too quicky physically.
keep this sh!t up for a long time and she'll be hooked.
personally i love to use the indirect approach when theres some possibility in my mind that the relationship might go somewhere. if i can get access to a woman through one of our mutual friends or through some mutual activity or situation than i greatly prefer that to just starting from scratch and soloing it. starting with social proof is always helpful.
for club game and ONSs cold approaches and the usual DJ stuff works wonders.
GL -J
They work from time to time and with a certain type of woman (which I don't think I need to describe). There are women who are very receptive to the unhidden display of your desire. There are women who are after the quick ONS just like you are. Many women I've been with required absolutely no work on my part to get into bed.... and for those unchallenging women this tip is not going to be of much use.
but there are more exotic women out there. more interesting women. hotter women. smarter women. women that you might actually want some kind of relationship with. maybe.... an LTR. (personally i find a hard time paying retail for what everyone else gets wholesale, but if you do find a woman worth your time...)
for these women they derive so much pleasure from the chase.... from the seduction that you craft around her. they want to believe that they are making the decisions and choices about their desire for you. they want to notice you slowly, subtly, and with an aura of mystery that gets them wondering. they want to think about you and build up a grand picture of you in their mind based on the limited hints you have given. after you have their attention they want things to develop in kind of an accidental way, almost like destiny had its hand in your comming together.
for this to happen. for you to really get deep into her psyche you need to be indirect at first. USE THE SIDE DOOR.
in order to do this you have to think about the whole thing as not an approach, number close, or pick-up....but as a casual conversation... just making friends. enter her world the first time with an excuse, or from another angle such as one of your friends or hers, or perhaps some business you are attending to.
this doesn't have anything to do with your alpha supremacy or your inability to show your power by making a bold move. if you wanted you could do that at anytime. but to do so will almost always break the spell and create yet another short lived relationship.
dont fear to express your sexuality but know when to show it.
engage her in conversation but keep it abstract, casual, and innocent. throw in hints of your sexual and bad side but make her wonder what you are by remaining on the surface and just talking about relavant things. make her wonder.
then mystery close instead of going for the number.
if you play up the mystery, hot/cold, and take it slow she'll fall for you way more than if you try to make it quick and express your feelings and emotions verbally and too quicky physically.
keep this sh!t up for a long time and she'll be hooked.
personally i love to use the indirect approach when theres some possibility in my mind that the relationship might go somewhere. if i can get access to a woman through one of our mutual friends or through some mutual activity or situation than i greatly prefer that to just starting from scratch and soloing it. starting with social proof is always helpful.
for club game and ONSs cold approaches and the usual DJ stuff works wonders.
GL -J
