"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The shotgun technique

phloyd

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This is something you may want to do every month or two depending on how many phone numbers you get from women. It seems to me a big percentage of numbers I get, a lot will flake out or not anwer the phone at all.

What I like to do on occasion is the women I haven't talked to in a while or not quite nexed but on the backburner......... line the numbers up and call them all one right after another with no pause in between calls.

It seems best to do this on a sunday or monday night because every time I've tried this it always seems to go well. You may surprise yourself and end up with a week full of dates or mabye nothing at all. It doesn't really matter because you were ready to give up on these particular women any way.

The ones who don't work out, delete them off the list.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's been a while since I did this but when I got home from work today a girl had called and left a message that I had not talked to in a couple of months. So I got inspired to call a few girls that fell through the cracks and I haven't talked to in a while.

Results: 3 nexted for good and 1 good catch up call w/ date soon.
 
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