"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The *****shield is real

Lolapo

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- Met girl on night out
- She started talking to me on FB
- My friend wanted to test me and see if I cared and if I could walk away from this so started talking to her on my profile and said some retarded overalpha stuff so she thought it was me and was pretty much turned off.

Now bout 1 week later, I initiated saying it wasn't me but we should go out sometime again. She's just blatantly ignoring it haha.

Now don't get me wrong, this is not asking advice on how I can turn this around but it's these girls that need to be thrown of their fckin imaginary throne and slammed on the ground (figurely).

I'm just going to walk away from this but damn it's like every 8+ thinks she's a goddess or some sort of higher being, in a way I do find it funny though :cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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El Payaso

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So she got messages from your profile belittling her and what not and you expect her to just brush it aside. Smh. It doesn't matter who wrote the messages. It's too late.
 

Lolapo

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El Payaso said:
So she got messages from your profile belittling her and what not and you expect her to just brush it aside. Smh. It doesn't matter who wrote the messages. It's too late.
Think you misunderstand me here.
I just told her it wasn't, that it was some friend trying to be funny who was on my profile. And again, I'm not asking to get her back. I'm talking about how hb8+'s think they're godesses
 

sylvester the cat

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Lolapo said:
Think you misunderstand me here.
I just told her it wasn't, that it was some friend trying to be funny who was on my profile.
Nobody's going to believe that, even if it is true.

I once created a POF account using a friend's pictures. I ripped into this HB and called her all sorts of insults. A short while later she came across my friend's real account and they started dating.
 
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