confus4ever
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when you are with someone that you truly dig, even when you show true confidence in yourself, do you ever get the hand shakes a little when handing over something..etc
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The shakes
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
willo
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Yep, happens to me sometimes too. The more i think about it the worse it seems to get i just try and ignore it 
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squirrels
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Isn't it great when a girl is awesome enough to do that to you?
(BTW, if it's bad enough to impede your function, you might want to consider doing something about it)
(BTW, if it's bad enough to impede your function, you might want to consider doing something about it)
It happens to us all. The girls that rock our world cause us to feel so self-conscious, in contrast to how AWESOME we perceive them to be. It's all good though; because when we deal with that situation, we come out of it stronger.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dell SkyCat
Senior Don Juan
Juggler wrote a good tip on how to 'masks' nervous mannerisms so well that when you do get nervous again, you'll be so confident that your masking them so well, that'll make you get more naturally confident. I do it and it's actually helped more than I had originally thought it would
Confus, that stuff happens to me even when I am by myself drinking a cup of water or can of pepsi, my hands shiver and
sometimes it can be misinterpreted anothe way by other less
discerning people
Confus, that stuff happens to me even when I am by myself drinking a cup of water or can of pepsi, my hands shiver and
sometimes it can be misinterpreted anothe way by other less
discerning people
haha yeah the girl im currently with. when i asked her if she wanted to go out sometime and pulled out my cellphone my hand was visably shaking. girl got it goin on if ya know what im saying... other than that my game was tight and confidence high. i think i have bad nerves anywayz for doing speed for a month but everthing worked out ok.