"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Big Eee Zee

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well, looks like my relationship may be over soon. those of you that have been around a while know my situation by now.

she's becoming increasingly distant, and a mutual friend told me in passing maybe she needs a break, leading me to think that she wants one.

well, if she wants a break, then thats going to be the end of it. its going to suck throwing away 13 months like that tho.

sh|T!!!! Well, im going to have a chat with her tomorrow i think, so i'll keep you all updated. if you dont care, dont bother reading. but some of you may be able to learn a few valuable lessions from my trajedy.

i hate women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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realsmoothie

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Big Eee Zee said:
well, looks like my relationship may be over soon. those of you that have been around a while know my situation by now.

she's becoming increasingly distant, and a mutual friend told me in passing maybe she needs a break, leading me to think that she wants one.

well, if she wants a break, then thats going to be the end of it. its going to suck throwing away 13 months like that tho.

sh|T!!!! Well, im going to have a chat with her tomorrow i think, so i'll keep you all updated. if you dont care, dont bother reading. but some of you may be able to learn a few valuable lessions from my trajedy.

i hate women.
Er, well, I don't know your situation. But you never "throw away" relationship time. If you didn't want to be there, you wouldn't have been.

You'll only remember the good times anyhow. And it's a learning experience, always.

And don't gimme this "I hate women" bullcrap.
 

virtual_insanity

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Big Eee Zee said:
well, looks like my relationship may be over soon. those of you that have been around a while know my situation by now.

she's becoming increasingly distant, and a mutual friend told me in passing maybe she needs a break, leading me to think that she wants one.

well, if she wants a break, then thats going to be the end of it. its going to suck throwing away 13 months like that tho.

sh|T!!!! Well, im going to have a chat with her tomorrow i think, so i'll keep you all updated. if you dont care, dont bother reading. but some of you may be able to learn a few valuable lessions from my trajedy.

i hate women.
right now, this moment, you are wasting time you could be spending with somebody who TRULY values you, think about that.
 

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I haven't been following your story, but I have noticed that you're 19.

Dude, you're 19! Are you kidding me? Invite your girl over, make a big fancy outdoor patio lunch for the both of you, and have this conversation as you sit down to eat:

Big EZ: "I'm glad you came over, it's time to celebrate!"

Girl: "Um... okay. What are we celebrating?"

Big EZ: "Well babe I just realized recently that I'm only 19 and we've been going out for over a year. That's way too long at this young age! I want to experience the field a bit. I've decided to start going after other women. Besides, it kinda seems like you could use a break from me anyway."

Girl: :eek:

Big EZ: "Everything all right? I hope this won't upset you too much. You've meant a lot to me over the last year."

Ex-Girl: "You're a jerk!" :cry:

Big EZ: "I thought I was being pretty civil about this, inviting you over for lunch and being straight-forward with you. Say, you really ought to try some of this fresh salad, it's delicious!"

Ex-Girl: *stomps off*

Big EZ: *shrugs shoulders, sits back in outdoor chair, keeps eating*
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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