The Sexually Manipulative Woman

[christz]

i have to seriously add to this being that i am friends with a girl just like this, where already she's had three different men all buy her rings. that Honestly to make a break from this girl is your best course of action.

sticking with this will get you nowhere, its just lucky that you don't have the attractive male friend coming around all the time sparking up convos flirting with her directly in front of you. which is what my friend does ALOT espeiclly with me.. but i sorta slap her away and tell her its wrong.. its like i'm traning a cat how to do tricks.. and the trick is to be a friggin adult!

Belive it when i say, i'm watching men get played and she will give them all the sex they could want, but when they want her to buckle down for a LTR she says NO, no and NO and then they put their head down in shame, but yet continue to try and make something from nothing. In their mind everything just needs a little time. But in her mind it was over before it started! She openly stated and i've caught her red handed calling into a radio show when they were calling out to all female players to call in and tell their story..

that she uses sex as a weapon to control and whip dudes.. if they start to get a mind of their own and ask questions about a certian situation or another man. she'll screw them and they are back to being her little mindless drones. some of the guys she's played even knew about one another but DIDN'T CARE all they cared about is spending that one last moment with her.. the hope of getting laid one more time.. its painfull to see men get like this. but she does it and she can do it in short order in some cases a few choice words is all it takes.. she can actually weed out and select weak minded men because she knows she can control them.

 

[jophil28]

Latinoman wrote" there is a tendency ..to blame women for all their issues." Huh ? I disagree . There are many posts in which men have shared their stories about their experiences and their pain and distess at being deceived by women..THese stories are essential to our collective understanding about how to be in a relationship with a sincere decent woman versus a goldigging or manipulating slag. The latter types are very skilled at presenting as "all things fluffy and nice" . However the reality is oftentimes that they are BPD or NPD or HPD or a mixture of these PDs. These "ladies" are satanic in their behavior and intent. WE need to 'TEST" women much more than we do and quit chasing P: as the end game . We need to weed out the weeds and keep the roses.
We are all responsible for our own behavior and actions and that goes for the rotten section of womanhood too. THey are resposible for what they do and how thet conduct themselves . I do not agree with what I suspect is LM's view that we can alter their behavior by being more 'manly' or whatever he is suggesting. That is pompous conceited nonsense. These women act the way that they do because they are DISORDERED - they have profound psych problems which no amount to superficial machismo, DJness or "putting your foot down" can alter(at least not for more that a few days )
Ultimately ,as tough as it is at times ,we just need to "walk away" with no contact.
You cannot, and should not negotiate with a terrorist and some of these women are precisely that. The battlefield is YOUR mind and you will be left with the emotional casualty that follows unwinnable conflict.

 

[Mr.Positive]

I still think he needs to try and b@ng the mom.

 

[Latinoman]

I never said nor implied you can alter their behavior by acting manly.

You act manly, first, for your own good...and second to broad your range when it come to women.

When everything is said and done it is a MAN that propose marriage.

We blame women for everything...if we were more selective and done our homework and improved ourselves...maybe we could blame others less.

Blaming others for our mistakes is the easy way out and a clear indication of a man that has no control over his life.

Are there bad women out there? Sure. Simply avoid them. And if by mistake you get involve with one...well, dump her and move on.

A Man has choiceps. It is good to share experiences...good and bad. But constantly whining and crying about the same woman is a feminine trait.

When was the last time someone posted success stories?

 

[Latinoman]

Another thing...I didn't say he should "act" like a Man. I said he should "be" a Man.

Huge difference there.

 

[GtarPlayr73]

I know, another long post, but a lot has been said, so the answer is going to be long. This thread has turned into another thread about my particular situation. I honestly was not intending it to go that way, but we are a community and people couldn't help but reading the OP in light of the situation that led to it. Latinoman - i understand you are concerned about me succeeding and i thank you for that.

Oneitis

Since i closed out the last major thread on this situation, i am happy to say that i have completely pulled away from the girl. I no longer do ANYTHING to precipitate a convo with her. Naturally, we run into each other, and at such times, i play the role of "friend" and "good neighbor", but i never prolong it, nor do i hint at hanging out. The oneitis has rapidly receeded as a result. The last convo i had with her was when i popped in to let her and her mom know that i was going away to visit my parents for the 4th. They said "we'll see you Wednesday". Well, i returned and did not visit them. Six days later, she and i finally "chatted" when she drove up while i was out smoking a cigar - unavoidable. Again, nothing further than the obligatory chat. Over the past couple of weeks, she has made no effort to maintain a friendship or to take the initiative with me, drunk as she has been with power. The funny thing is that when this current thread started taking off, the oneitis kinda sorta crept back. I found myself in the grip of emotions just thinking about the wondrous sight her beautiful, milky-white, D-cup tits. You gotta understand the power of this girl's body and her cutesy-charms. It can make you f*cking melt. But i knew what was happening and i got a grip. I simply went logical (like joekerr31 advised in another post) and the emotions subsided. The resurgence of oneitis as a result of writing this thread shows me that, like a weed, oneitis responds very well to water. It's all a matter of attention - you water your oneitis with attention and it grows. So get that attention off of the girl and on to someone or even some thing else. (Like FIFA 07!)

Age factor

It's been pointed out that she is 25 and i am 34. Yes, that was a noticable difference from the outset, and i think it plays a huge role in the inability of this girl and i to click and relate to each other. Funny thing is, with time and experience with this girl, the age factor has taken a back seat to all the actual drama. But when i dated an older woman several months ago, the maturity, self-assurance, and experience the woman possessed was SO refreshing. It really cast this landlady's daughter in a different light. When the girl showed renewed "interest" in me, the awkwardness of our incompatibility was palpable.

That being said, if the girl were to just want sex from me, i wouldn't turn her away - that would actually be all i want - BUT it has been well-established that she doesn't just want sex and she is incapable of even having a healthy casual sexual understanding, seeing that she uses sex as a tool for her power-grabbing ways.

Living Circumstances

I was thinking last night that you can never underestimate the extent to which money motivates and influences women. I then had to consider the possibility (or near-certainty) that much of what the mother and daughter have done for me has been done for the sake of the rent check. Isn't that so much what women want? It's f*cking sick. They f*cking love money like we love pu**y. Anyway, how often has this girl thought of their financial needs when she thought of me? Yeah me being the tenant is EVERYTHING for her. She is the one to list their apartments and take the phone calls. Her mom just literally takes the check. Even if the girl wanted it, a relationship would be impossible in such circumstances. Keep that rent check coming. Keep the tenant happy. Flatter him. Even give him some free sex if he's attractive enough. But their friendship feels genuine much of the time, so i don't know how much of it is unconcious on their part.

As for whether to stay or not, the situation is really not a problem AS LONG AS that oneitis is being denied attention. My apartment is part of the same house (converted) BUT is completely seperated from their part of the house. The entrance to my apartment is in the back while theirs is in the front. Before she and i became involved, we really had a great friendship vibe going - to everyone's interests. So, maintaining or even returning to that pure friendly vibe is key. My debt situation is such that i absolutely must not increase my expenses by a single dollar, so relocating is not an option, barring finding a better scenario for the same price, but again, this is a situation for a DJ to deal with, not run away from. As for having me own space for chicks to come back to, well...how sweet it will be when the little SMW has to hear, through the walls, another chick getting all the attention (including sexual) she once got herself. It will be a reminder of her lost power...

 

[Latinoman]

27 or 28 is great age.

And trust me...a HOT 25 year old that gives you sex from time to time is very hard to ignore. It would be hard for ME to ignore (unless I had a stash of hotties). That's the main reason I say "leave".

Note: you should have told them you were out of town on the fourth without giving too much detail. They would have asked "where you going?"...and you could have replied with a wink and a smile. If she is truly using sex as a power tool...that "wink and smile" would have driven her crazy. ;-)

 

[Latinoman]

Another thing dude...get a few women to your place. But don't do it for the purpose of making her feel jealous.

Instead do it for the purpose of making you feel good.

In essence...forget about her. Keep as little contact as possible.


Sorry to hear about your debts. I feel that if you keep yourself busy working on decreasing those debts and meeting NEW women...your oneitis will completely evaporate.

Good luck.

 

[paintballz]

grow a set dude!

seriously these two women have you mind fcked!!

get yo sh*t and bounce!!!

i cant believe im reading this ****