"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The seduction language of social media

jhonny9546

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Since you improved, a lot of girls have started playing the "social media game".
They’ll start watching your Instagram stories to show “hey, I see you,” and sometimes they might even like your posts.
And maybe they do it after you ran into each other that day.


Many women who use a smartphone and say they’re in a relationship… they’re not really. "It’s just your turn", we know how it goes. These are girls who are already taken, but they’ve noticed your value. So they keep you around, just in orbit. Definitely a red flag.


But I’m not trying to start drama, I just want to understand the general consensus here.
Who here uses social media? Who notices this happening? How do you respond? What do you do?
It seems pretty clear that this is a new language of flirting in the digital age and it adds to a man SMV to show off what he achieved in life, who he is. Something like your CV. So it is your responsability to "reply" correctly to those "customers"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"How do you respond?"

If she expresses interest and seems like a cool chick, DM her a time and place to get together. She either appears or doesn't
 

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Goes to show you the downside of how Social Media and the internet has ruined relationships. We were better off with walkie talkies, walkmans and beepers with cable tv. Simple times. Yeah you just want to take it as a compliment but want to avoid chicks like that and not get into unnecessary drama. If you're a Man, it's good to be noble and follow the ' Bro code', one- you never get involved with a chick who just broken up a friend or even an acquaintance you know...even if you don't like that guy. Ya want a clean slate as much as possible to reap good Karma.
 
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The only social media I use is Hinge. And even with Hinge I am cool deleting it for weeks or months at a time to take a break.

This forum is basically the only other place I post online other than emails.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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