improvingdonjuan
Senior Don Juan
many DJ's have different tactics.
some use SS, some NLP, some use the MISTERY METHOD,
now i hear of SEXUAL STATE. the school of thought, i came from back when i joined this forum was the overall, and gradual self improvement.
here i will try to explain all the theories and why they work. In order to be a great DJ we have to accept and learn different styles, understand them; so we can apply them. Now it is important that whatever DJ we turn into, we are CONFORTABLE with our style. We have to adapt the theory to fit our personality. A guy who acts tough, who says caned lines, who is pushing himself to be sexual, will not get laid. This is what descourages the newbies. This is why we have so much frutration and hostility nowadays.
LOOKS
looks are important. No one can deny it, looks are what on an initial approach gets you qualified. Looks are most important when COLD Approaching and the importance diminishes if we are in a setting where we are with the female we are after day after day (here is where the old train of though of challenge, confidence and overall being a MAN is most effective). That is why a good DJ must be a smart DJ and adapt his strategy accordingly. You can be ugly to some girls, and cute to others, that is how the game is. What never fails is to LOOK YOUR BEST. (gives you confidence as well as extra points on the looks scale)
Personality
when you are initially qualified by looks (or disqualified) in a COLD APPROACH setting. Personality either keeps the girl interested or bores the heck out of her. You could look like a Model but if you fail to capitalize on your initial "go ahead" you screw up. It depends what type of approach, and what type of environment you are. Not everything is the same, specially with females, they act more on "the momment" and what you "make them feel" at the time.
Sexual state
if you are looking to get laid, you being in a sexual state will do the trick. Not only because you give sexual vibes and you are thinking sexually. But because the state of mind dictates your actions, you push the envelope with sexual state. You touch, you kiss, you undress her; things you would not do if you where not on this state. Remember girls wait for guys to lead, in sexual state you lead her to the bedroom. (i can't put it more simple than that)
Challenge
being a challenge is good, you make her persue you. You practically show her what you are worth. You do not turn into a suplicating, clingy guy; now like i have been saying before it depends on what your GOAL is, and what type of setting you are at. if you proceed with
1-cold approach
2-C+F/Personality/fun/funniness (what ever you want to call it. it is all the same. your personality shines through here)
3-number close
4-date. here you go on sexual state
5-you have zex with her
6- you act as a challege
(you can skip some steps according to the situation and the feed back, ADJUST YOUR GAME ACCORDING TO WHAT IS GOING ON) in this "speed lay, what your goal is basically to get laid as quick as possible to have the upper hand (girls will use their body as means of control, you disarm her by using it first
)
however this is not the only way, there are many ways to go about the game.
it all depends on your GOAL we get what we are looking for.
it could be
1- meet girl in a setting where you will se eachother on a regular basis
2- stablish social proof with her friends
3-act like a man, with the CONFIDENCE, MANLINESS, I am the prize thinking, C+F and PERSONALITY (here personality is more important than looks)
4- you attract the female to you (by social proof, higher value, and being just an awesome guy)
5- you act as a challenge (make her chase you)
6- her IL is so high that you capitalize on it
There are many other styles, but you have to know what you want.
you need to know your GOALS and OBJECTIVES. SS, LTR, ONS, EGO STROKING, POPULARITY. what do you want?
THE COMMON DENOMINATOR
you need to have CONFIDENCE, you need to be CONFORTABLE with yourself,
you need to be used to talking to girls, and being social.
how do you get this? PRACTICE
some use SS, some NLP, some use the MISTERY METHOD,
now i hear of SEXUAL STATE. the school of thought, i came from back when i joined this forum was the overall, and gradual self improvement.
here i will try to explain all the theories and why they work. In order to be a great DJ we have to accept and learn different styles, understand them; so we can apply them. Now it is important that whatever DJ we turn into, we are CONFORTABLE with our style. We have to adapt the theory to fit our personality. A guy who acts tough, who says caned lines, who is pushing himself to be sexual, will not get laid. This is what descourages the newbies. This is why we have so much frutration and hostility nowadays.
LOOKS
looks are important. No one can deny it, looks are what on an initial approach gets you qualified. Looks are most important when COLD Approaching and the importance diminishes if we are in a setting where we are with the female we are after day after day (here is where the old train of though of challenge, confidence and overall being a MAN is most effective). That is why a good DJ must be a smart DJ and adapt his strategy accordingly. You can be ugly to some girls, and cute to others, that is how the game is. What never fails is to LOOK YOUR BEST. (gives you confidence as well as extra points on the looks scale)
Personality
when you are initially qualified by looks (or disqualified) in a COLD APPROACH setting. Personality either keeps the girl interested or bores the heck out of her. You could look like a Model but if you fail to capitalize on your initial "go ahead" you screw up. It depends what type of approach, and what type of environment you are. Not everything is the same, specially with females, they act more on "the momment" and what you "make them feel" at the time.
Sexual state
if you are looking to get laid, you being in a sexual state will do the trick. Not only because you give sexual vibes and you are thinking sexually. But because the state of mind dictates your actions, you push the envelope with sexual state. You touch, you kiss, you undress her; things you would not do if you where not on this state. Remember girls wait for guys to lead, in sexual state you lead her to the bedroom. (i can't put it more simple than that)
Challenge
being a challenge is good, you make her persue you. You practically show her what you are worth. You do not turn into a suplicating, clingy guy; now like i have been saying before it depends on what your GOAL is, and what type of setting you are at. if you proceed with
1-cold approach
2-C+F/Personality/fun/funniness (what ever you want to call it. it is all the same. your personality shines through here)
3-number close
4-date. here you go on sexual state
5-you have zex with her
6- you act as a challege
(you can skip some steps according to the situation and the feed back, ADJUST YOUR GAME ACCORDING TO WHAT IS GOING ON) in this "speed lay, what your goal is basically to get laid as quick as possible to have the upper hand (girls will use their body as means of control, you disarm her by using it first
)however this is not the only way, there are many ways to go about the game.
it all depends on your GOAL we get what we are looking for.
it could be
1- meet girl in a setting where you will se eachother on a regular basis
2- stablish social proof with her friends
3-act like a man, with the CONFIDENCE, MANLINESS, I am the prize thinking, C+F and PERSONALITY (here personality is more important than looks)
4- you attract the female to you (by social proof, higher value, and being just an awesome guy)
5- you act as a challenge (make her chase you)
6- her IL is so high that you capitalize on it
There are many other styles, but you have to know what you want.
you need to know your GOALS and OBJECTIVES. SS, LTR, ONS, EGO STROKING, POPULARITY. what do you want?
THE COMMON DENOMINATOR
you need to have CONFIDENCE, you need to be CONFORTABLE with yourself,
you need to be used to talking to girls, and being social.
how do you get this? PRACTICE
