"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The secret...

volkme68

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You may have noticed it s been a while since I have been on here. THe reason is I have been in the field. That is the secret. Here is why...

My current roommate and I have been good friends since fresh year. Neither new the other was gaming. One night we were out and I was talking to HB8.5 or so and he was nearby. I recognized a line from a website. Later that night, I called him on it in private. Thus the Dynamic duo was born...

After talking a bit, the two of us had been having some issues with closing and consistent success. we started going out, usually just the two of us, to the city, 45 min away. we were doing this about three times a week. the way there, we just tell stories and any new techniques or ideas.

Well this got us into a great state. we were in the zone, yet still with a buddy, so it was a lot more fun. We each were familiar with wing techniques and courtesy, so we weren't accidently **** blocking. we were feeding off eachother's success, and it became a bit of a contest too.

All my best stories come from being in the field. Not from the forums. A good story, that is real kills canned material anytime. From getting punched in the face a couple times from a tranny, to meeting pro athletes, it all happens in the field. it gives you a level of experience and depth that women just buzzed to.

the trip each time was long, but those 45 minutes were utilized too. Having my wing there, we spend the entire ride debriefing what happend that night, if we don't just crash at some girls' house.

Overall, great stories, friends and experience are found in the field, not the internet. It really helps having someone there with you too. Either a natural, or some one on the same page as you, that can help you when you screw up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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volkme68

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another thing, and it happened to me, is we were going out to pick up girls. It burned us out quick. after a month or two. we weren't having fun. And we started slipping down hill.

I took a weekend off, and the next time I went out, it was to get drunk. I had just had a near death experience, and wanted to drink and celebrate not dieing. (I totaled a motorcyle, not my fault and was uninjured:eek: )

Long story short, I was there for a good time, and as a result, the women were all over me. I had a great opener too.

"Out on the town?"
"Yeah just needed to get out of the house. You?"
"Yeah I didn't die today!"
"???"
"blah blah blah."

End result? I didn't drink too much, and woke up sore as hell in some girls bed.

that day was like a switch with women for me. I quit going out just to meet girls, I went out to have fun, regardless if it was THE night to go out or not. Hell, the staff picked up on it too. If you want to make friends in the service industry, go on a non-regular night. THey will be bored and alot more friendly. I never pay for drinks when I go out anymore, and no cover either.

For me, I was about to give up on PU but then when I wasn't consciously using it, it just came naturally, from all the practice before.
 
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