"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The secret...

volkme68

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You may have noticed it s been a while since I have been on here. THe reason is I have been in the field. That is the secret. Here is why...

My current roommate and I have been good friends since fresh year. Neither new the other was gaming. One night we were out and I was talking to HB8.5 or so and he was nearby. I recognized a line from a website. Later that night, I called him on it in private. Thus the Dynamic duo was born...

After talking a bit, the two of us had been having some issues with closing and consistent success. we started going out, usually just the two of us, to the city, 45 min away. we were doing this about three times a week. the way there, we just tell stories and any new techniques or ideas.

Well this got us into a great state. we were in the zone, yet still with a buddy, so it was a lot more fun. We each were familiar with wing techniques and courtesy, so we weren't accidently **** blocking. we were feeding off eachother's success, and it became a bit of a contest too.

All my best stories come from being in the field. Not from the forums. A good story, that is real kills canned material anytime. From getting punched in the face a couple times from a tranny, to meeting pro athletes, it all happens in the field. it gives you a level of experience and depth that women just buzzed to.

the trip each time was long, but those 45 minutes were utilized too. Having my wing there, we spend the entire ride debriefing what happend that night, if we don't just crash at some girls' house.

Overall, great stories, friends and experience are found in the field, not the internet. It really helps having someone there with you too. Either a natural, or some one on the same page as you, that can help you when you screw up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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another thing, and it happened to me, is we were going out to pick up girls. It burned us out quick. after a month or two. we weren't having fun. And we started slipping down hill.

I took a weekend off, and the next time I went out, it was to get drunk. I had just had a near death experience, and wanted to drink and celebrate not dieing. (I totaled a motorcyle, not my fault and was uninjured:eek: )

Long story short, I was there for a good time, and as a result, the women were all over me. I had a great opener too.

"Out on the town?"
"Yeah just needed to get out of the house. You?"
"Yeah I didn't die today!"
"???"
"blah blah blah."

End result? I didn't drink too much, and woke up sore as hell in some girls bed.

that day was like a switch with women for me. I quit going out just to meet girls, I went out to have fun, regardless if it was THE night to go out or not. Hell, the staff picked up on it too. If you want to make friends in the service industry, go on a non-regular night. THey will be bored and alot more friendly. I never pay for drinks when I go out anymore, and no cover either.

For me, I was about to give up on PU but then when I wasn't consciously using it, it just came naturally, from all the practice before.
 
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