"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Secret

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Have any of you guys seen this film, I guess there's a book version too. If so have you utilized it in such a way as to increase your game?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ive seen it. and i havent really used it for THAT particualr purpose. One thing you should note tho. Its really a 4 step process.

Ask
believe
Action
recieve

u can ask, an believe all you want but if u dont take action u wont get ****.
 

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it's bullsh1t and it's already been discussed on this forum. Do a search for the thread.
 

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Basically, if you exist in your world of negatives, you will only see Negative things in your world.
If you exist in a world of Positives, you will see evidence of the Positives in your reality.

The more you exist in your Positive Reality, the more Postive people, places, and things will appear in your reality.

Your Life is always under control.
By by believing in the negative "evidence", we feel a lack of control.
And then just go with the (negative) flow.

When was the last time you recognized something positive, and proclaimed to yourself just how thankful you are for experienceing it?

Now how many times a day do you get pissed off at the Negative?

Most people whom look at their world negatively, only look for the Negative.
A self Fulfilling prophecy.
What they believe they shall receive.

Case in point....

I have a co worker of mine. A panicky Beta male if I have ever seen one.
He believes people are always trying to fvck him over.
He doens't trust people. And always complains at the slightest hint of something he finds personally offensive.
Like being asked by a superior to perform a cetain task.
He always resents it , becaus ehe looks at it from the angle of "I'm being fvcked over."
Now myself?
No one fvcks me. No one fvcks with me.
Guess who always gets the anal probe?
My Beta "friend".
So you believe... so shall you recieve.
He feels negative, like he;s "getting fvcked".
Guess what?
He does.
Because he brings into his life HIMSELF.


Self Fulfinlling Prophecy.


As you think, so shall you be.

As you ask (consciously or not) so shall you receive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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