"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Secret

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Have any of you guys seen this film, I guess there's a book version too. If so have you utilized it in such a way as to increase your game?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ive seen it. and i havent really used it for THAT particualr purpose. One thing you should note tho. Its really a 4 step process.

Ask
believe
Action
recieve

u can ask, an believe all you want but if u dont take action u wont get ****.
 

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it's bullsh1t and it's already been discussed on this forum. Do a search for the thread.
 

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Basically, if you exist in your world of negatives, you will only see Negative things in your world.
If you exist in a world of Positives, you will see evidence of the Positives in your reality.

The more you exist in your Positive Reality, the more Postive people, places, and things will appear in your reality.

Your Life is always under control.
By by believing in the negative "evidence", we feel a lack of control.
And then just go with the (negative) flow.

When was the last time you recognized something positive, and proclaimed to yourself just how thankful you are for experienceing it?

Now how many times a day do you get pissed off at the Negative?

Most people whom look at their world negatively, only look for the Negative.
A self Fulfilling prophecy.
What they believe they shall receive.

Case in point....

I have a co worker of mine. A panicky Beta male if I have ever seen one.
He believes people are always trying to fvck him over.
He doens't trust people. And always complains at the slightest hint of something he finds personally offensive.
Like being asked by a superior to perform a cetain task.
He always resents it , becaus ehe looks at it from the angle of "I'm being fvcked over."
Now myself?
No one fvcks me. No one fvcks with me.
Guess who always gets the anal probe?
My Beta "friend".
So you believe... so shall you recieve.
He feels negative, like he;s "getting fvcked".
Guess what?
He does.
Because he brings into his life HIMSELF.


Self Fulfinlling Prophecy.


As you think, so shall you be.

As you ask (consciously or not) so shall you receive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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