"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Secret to Success...Keep it Simple

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MrLuvr

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Common sense stuff really. Wyldfire loves the attention of her little fans. Did anyone notice how many times she "bumped" her own thread?

This woman has a self-imposed sense of grandeur about herself, and you idiots feed it just like the good little AFC's you are.

I believe these points have been made by other DJ's before. She just regurgitated it in different words.
Agree.

She has just taken stuff from elsewhere and copied it and put it in here in her own words.

Nothing new here. Tell us something we don't know.

YAWN.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Common sense stuff really. Wyldfire loves the attention of her little fans. Did anyone notice how many times she "bumped" her own thread?

This woman has a self-imposed sense of grandeur about herself, and you idiots feed it just like the good little AFC's you are.

I believe these points have been made by other DJ's before. She just regurgitated it in different words.
meh.

You're not trying to fvck her are you? So why be a d1ck?

So she loves attention. So she bumped her thread. Whatever - was it not good advice that she gave? Give credit where credit is due.

~Sloopy
 

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Originally posted by Sloopy
meh.

You're not trying to fvck her are you? So why be a d1ck?

So she loves attention. So she bumped her thread. Whatever - was it not good advice that she gave? Give credit where credit is due.

~Sloopy
If you read my post, you'd see that I said it wasn't her advice you stupid fvcker.

Why should we give her credit for something other people have said first?

What the hell does me not trying to fvck her have to do with anything?

Go home and take your prozac.
 

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Agreed with jprjrjr, nothing new. Wouldn't even suprise me if there is one article in the bible that already covers everything you said. Oh well, nothing bad with it I guess though.
 

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I don't know about this being the secret to success. Lot's of guys have been doing this stuff for years and not having success. It's pretty vague and general. If keeping it simple worked, well we wouldn't have this forum with a mountain of info dealing with women. Wyldfire is a woman so her thread is strictly KJ in it's extreme with zero field experience. It's not bad it's just she over hypes it all..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
I believe these points have been made by other DJ's before. She just regurgitated it in different words.
Very true, there are no revelations here, but she has written it in a way that's simple and to the point. Let's be honest, a large percentage of this site and the DJ Bible is pure crap and to find any useful information would take forever and would be mixed with a load of contradictions, lies, theoretical and surplus nonsense and a whole lot of confusion.
 

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The whole idea of this thread was to simplify things for those people here who get confused and bogged down by trying to implement TOO MUCH at once.

Also, one of the "repeated" bits of information was something that *I* first posted here several years ago...

I also don't ever recall anyone posting that guys need to allow themselves to try to sort out their own best courses of action, trust their judgement and that doing so BUILDS CONFIDENCE.

Again...the "rules" are a guide ONLY...and are not set in stone. It is FOOLISH to judge anyone posts based on their gender rather than the CONTENT of said post.
 

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If you put a gun to my head and said "QUICK, tell me who's the bigger loser: the person who paraphrases a vast wealth of knowledge into a concise and easy to read post on the internet, or the people who try to look cool by calling the first person a plagiarist!" I'd say: "Well it seems clear to me that the jackasses who made a big deal of nothing would be the bigger losers!"

Pfffft! Get a life guys. It's far more productive than critizing a good post because it was well put together by a GIIIIIIIIIIIRL ooooooOOOOooooH!

Later,
Drewgie
 
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