"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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THE secret that ALL the players know that MOST GUYS DONT KNOW!

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first of all, hi everyone........this is skip2mylou781, i was banned before for too much arguing and flaming (not caused by me, but I was stupid enough to always retaliate, and thus I got banned)........no more of that

ok to the point now


I been reading these forums for a few months now just for fun when I get a chance............and there is only ONE recurring problem i see here

ONE

ONLY ONE PROBLEM

take this problem away, and life for everyone here all of a sudden becomes a beautiful perfection

but 99% of you guys here have THE SAME EXACT ****IN PROBLEM


its RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF YOU.............you SHOULD be able to see it, but you DONT SEE IT!!!!!!!

whats the problem????


let me repeat it so its clear:

YOU OVERANALYZE TOO MUCH
YOU OVERANALYZE TOO MUCH
YOU OVERANALYZE TOO MUCH
YOU OVERANALYZE TOO MUCH
YOU OVERANALYZE TOO MUCH
YOU OVERANALYZE TOO MUCH
YOU OVERANALYZE TOO MUCH

you get the point???

all the real players are stupid.......they are dumb........they dont care about girls, they dont think about girls - they just do whatever they wanna do, PERIOD

they dont care if they called a girl 3 times in 3 days.......they will call her again 2 days later and make plans to chill and end up fcuking her - the REAL PLAYERS simply dont care to even bother thinking about any given situation'

they dont care how to approach
they dont care what they are wearing
they dont care how they look
they dont care whether they get laid, get a gf, or just fcuk around and have some fun getting rejected

i guess its whats you guys call CONFIDENCE



what I call it is "not caring"


its up to WOMEN to analyze and be worried
MEN will do as they please and never think when it comes to dating


THIS is why players have all the success they do while so many guys are hopeless..........if the hopeless guys stopped analyzing every little situation and thinking too much, THEY WOULD ACTUALLY GET SOMEWHERE

let me repeat this for those who its not clear to:

WHEN YOU START CARING AND OVERANALYZING, YOU BECOME AN AFC
WHEN YOU DO AS YOU PLEASE AND DONT HAVE A CARE IN THE WORLD WHEN IT COMES TO DATING, YOU BECOME A PLAYER

dont belive me??

try it...........
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yep, I thought that a few years back, I coined this phrase "if you dont give a fvck, then youll get a fvck"
 

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Hello. So you got banned from player supreme's site and now posting here? Lol that guy really doesnt seem to like you.
 

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I think people here analysis about the wrong things. Instead of "what does she think about me?" and "what's my next move" people should be thinking of "what do I want?" and "what am i going to gain or learn from this relationship". Those are questions that can't be posted here because no one knows the anwser. People don't look inward for the big deep issues. Intead they focus on the short simple things that they can figure out in a few minutes.
 

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But despite the fact that supreme sh!tted on u in basically every podcast (lol sorry man i had to laugh) you are making a clever point. I support almost everything u said except:
real players DO care how they look,
they DO care what they wear,
and they DO care about getting laid

Cuz if they DONT, then they're not true players. U need a DIRECTION and a PLAN. You can't be like some kind of a crazy monkey that says rediculous sh!t, dresses like a bum, totally out of shape, and hasnt showered in weeks. You feel me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hell yeah i've noticed that most people overanalyze way too much. the "i dont care" is not right exactly though.. whatever Overanalyzing already too much :D
 

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DJVladdy said:
Hello. So you got banned from player supreme's site and now posting here? Lol that guy really doesnt seem to like you.
Player Supreme is full of fvcking hot air and moist sh!t. He's illiterate and dyslexic. Skip too is a fvcktard but a fvcktard with some posts of merit.

If you subscribe to P S's bullsh!t you'll need to pick up the Complete Idiot's guide to Ebonics to understand what the fvck he's trying to spew out of his hole.
 

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I can say this because I've listened to a couple of his podcasts but: "go out and git yo b!tches and bump n grind then bring da ho back to yo crib and make her suck yo d!ck den leave dat ass out on da skreet." Isn't really anything that would aid a brother in his progression to manhood.

He sounds like a fvcking 14 year old wanna be hip hop gangsta. Some guys find his schpeel appealing. I find him repulsive and ignorant. I and the brothers I help are on a different path.

KPH, what good advise has he given to you?
 
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me and supreme had a big disagreement, and since he runs his site like a tyrant, he just banned me

oh well, not like i care
 

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Right on man. I agree 100%. When you stop overanalyzing every smile or inflection when a girl speaks to you, and all that other sh*t life becomes hella easier and hella lot more fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ah, the myth of 'the natural' again.

All the guys I've ever known who were good with women, including myself, had some idea about what they were doing right.

It's not over-analysis that's bad, it's analysis without action, or with the wrong action. But if you really believe analysis is unhelpful, what's the point of you being here?
 

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Overanalyzing means different things to different people.


I think what he's trying to tell us is that anyalyzing other people's actions is useless, because we can never tell. Analyzing means we think it's something personal and has to do with us, so we need to know how to react and defend. That's not being open.


Getting a girl is all about openness. She'll love a guy that isn't snaky.
 

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bump

it has been confirmed through a special test I did in PM that this is in fact the real skip, mods, do not ban him. let him speak!
 
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Nighthawk said:
Ah, the myth of 'the natural' again.

All the guys I've ever known who were good with women, including myself, had some idea about what they were doing right.

It's not over-analysis that's bad, it's analysis without action, or with the wrong action. But if you really believe analysis is unhelpful, what's the point of you being here?

its interesting you say that....

basically my point is, you can't act like a lil chick and analyze all the little situations/scenarios. The following scenarios should NOT even be given a second thought, yet constantly guys keep making the same mistake that a true player NEVER makes - overanalyzing. Again, the following thoughts never enter a real man's mind:

1) should i approach?
2) i wonder what time I should call her so as to increase my chances with her.
3) should i go for the kiss?
4) what do i do if she doesnt call back?

you get the point.........

THIS IS ALL BS DRAMA FOR GIRLS TO ANALYZE, NOT FOR GUYS!!!!

girls go crazy over all this analysis of dating situations..........the only thing that real men analyze in their spare time is SPORTS lol (I listen to sports radio all the time, they analyze every player's every single little move)


anyway to get back on track, Nighthawk........there is no such thing as a natural player.

The fact is, we all start out the same, and those who put the effort to develop their skills end up being the best players out there

by the way, ACTION develops skills, NOT JUST READING MATERIAL LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Complete bollocks. I didn't analyse at all when I was an AFC....and I kept making the same mistakes. When I first got into PU properly, I anlaysed everything....the way I looked, body language, whai I said, how I said it....and modified it for about 6 months until it was all taken care of....if I hadn't analysed anything I'd still be an AFC.

(BTW "overanalyse too much" doesn't make sense....overanalysis, by definition, is 'analysing too much' and is obviously bad...so of course 'don't overanalyse' is the right advice...'don't overdo anything' is the right advice, however, the rest of your post is suggesting that guys should not analyse at all....which is what I have a problem with, just thought I'd clear that up.)

Yea, if you're a naturally well built, good looking natural with great body language then analyse nothing and just get on with....but if you're naturally like that why would you come here in the first place?

Seriously guys, just be careful who you take advice from. Skip always talks like his way is the only way and he's definitely right, but I have my suspiscions about whether he really is who he says he is.

Thats all I'll say, don't want to get into any flaming wars.
 

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I never got why PlayerSupreme and skip2mylou781 got booted pretty quickly, but Wyldfire was allowed to fester for 9000 posts?

What exactly did PlayerSupreme & skip2mylou781 say that was so wrong again? I actually found a lot of good things in the stuff they said.
 
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L777 said:
Complete bollocks. I didn't analyse at all when I was an AFC....and I kept making the same mistakes. When I first got into PU properly, I anlaysed everything....the way I looked, body language, whai I said, how I said it....and modified it for about 6 months until it was all taken care of....if I hadn't analysed anything I'd still be an AFC.

(BTW "overanalyse too much" doesn't make sense....overanalysis, by definition, is 'analysing too much' and is obviously bad...so of course 'don't overanalyse' is the right advice...'don't overdo anything' is the right advice, however, the rest of your post is suggesting that guys should not analyse at all....which is what I have a problem with, just thought I'd clear that up.)

Yea, if you're a naturally well built, good looking natural with great body language then analyse nothing and just get on with....but if you're naturally like that why would you come here in the first place?

Seriously guys, just be careful who you take advice from. Skip always talks like his way is the only way and he's definitely right, but I have my suspiscions about whether he really is who he says he is.

Thats all I'll say, don't want to get into any flaming wars.
wtf u wanna do, follow me around for a month and see how my game is?

i dont know who you are either.....so?

take my advice and stop analyzing **** like a girl

or

keep analyzing and living a confused drama filled feminine life
 
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wayword said:
I never got why PlayerSupreme and skip2mylou781 got booted pretty quickly, but Wyldfire was allowed to fester for 9000 posts?

What exactly did PlayerSupreme & skip2mylou781 say that was so wrong again? I actually found a lot of good things in the stuff they said.

we spoke the truth from our hearts and never sugar coated anything

if someone flamed, we flamed back

meanwhile Wyldfire was a woman on an all male forum, and she always spoke with kindness and respec.......im sorry i cant continue with this sarcasm lol
 

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pimpaholicskip said:
wtf u wanna do, follow me around for a month and see how my game is?

i dont know who you are either.....so?

take my advice and stop analyzing **** like a girl

or

keep analyzing and living a confused drama filled feminine life
Well I'm the guy who used to flame war you on a regular basis. I've grown up since then and my game has come on....it doesn't look the same can be said for you.

Look mate, just because someone doesn't agree with your questionable advice doesn't mean they're wrong...what I'm saying does make sense. I don't analyse anything now unless I make a serious f,uck up, everything's on autopilot....but telling a 25 yr old virgin who has been being nice to girls for his whole life to 'not analyse or think too much' is poor advice. Not everyone has the confidence to do that...hell, some of the very best PUAs analyse every little detail (Mystery and the routine junkies), which flies in the face of your advice as well.

Please grow and up and learn to have a debate and take criticism. Oh and learn how to type properly. Cheers
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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