"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The second call

biketrials

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I have read a hell of a lot about the first call but I am confused about the second call. I want yall to clarify if I should still make the quick 15 minute call or should I go longer.


Thanks fo the clarification
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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08aisaac

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I always listen to my heart.
Lol. jk.
Just talk until you get bored talking.
Of course, if things get stale, just be like, I gtg.
 

Damian

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If you can keep a stimulating conversation going for hours at a time, by all means, but don't make it a habit.

Tailor your phone time to your own conversational capabilities. If you aren't too much of a smooth talker on the phone, then don't bother having any long and intellectual phone conversations. If you can keep a strong verbal front, push your advantage and have some good conversations.

On average, your phone conversations should not exceed 45 minutes each. I usually like to set a lower standard, so it will be easier for me to progress and show connection as a slowly increase call times. Test your own capabilities then figure out your own "perfect timing" for calls. Report back and give us what you find.

-Damian
 
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