"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The scene for 16 year olds in UK.

x0dus

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Hey, I know the majority of the high school guides or guides in general are based around US customs so I was wondering what I should be NOT doing when approaching women in the UK. Im 16 and live in Hertfordshire (just north of London) and I don't really go to clubs as there aren't many ones NOT filled with chavs.

Let me know.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by x0dus
...I don't really go to clubs as there aren't many ones NOT filled with chavs.
Why do so many people have this attitiude?

Why do you care what other people think?

Never use the word "chav" again. Ever. Otherwise you'll just come across as a moaner.

Anyway...

At 16, unless you look older, the club scene is going to be slightly out of your reach for another year or so. If your going to college or staying on at school next year, then try your chances there - lots of new people to meet who WANT to meet DJs such as yourself.
 

x0dus

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Fair enough...they are in high numbers around here so it's hard not to moan about them a little but I will try and stay positive I suppose. Is there a thread with tips for just UK girls?
 

onyx

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hahah@ chavs, i don't like them either, not how they look, just the things and mischieve they get up to.

But any ways, theres plenty of ways to meet girls at 16. i'm 19, was only 3 years ago when i was 16. They have pop and crisp nights for under 18s, thats basically a night in a club but without the alcohol. It shouldn't really matter about the scenes so to speak, its having the balls to approach girls, and come on you can't tell me you don't see girls you like. Approach em, even when walking down the street, thats what its all about
 

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ok, can't speak for where you live, but all the 16 year olds around birmingham seem to be able to get into the indie/rock clubs.

Thats the kind of places i was trying to go at when i was 16/17.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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note.the.smoke

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house parties
dead clubs (more likely to let in underage ppl)
any club (grow a beard, or go in with older people, or a good lookin girl...)
parks
street corners

plenty of places...
 

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Damn, I wish I'd found this **** when I was 16, two years of AFC. Mate there's plenty of places at your age and it should also be a bit easier as the girls wouldn't have had that much experience of Players et al.
 

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I'm 17, and my goldmine's the bus stop. Man, it's so easy!

ANd college dude. Most people our age don't have the self confidence to approach strange girls, we do though man.

we're the **** for these college girls.
 

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If you didn't go to it, you should have gone to the free festival in Hitchin last weekend - hot, young girls everywhere.
 
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