The scary part about marriage

[JohnChops]

I just realized this today... im 19 and I have no way have marriage on my mind in the near future at all but .....
When you get married your tied down for life , if your wife gets moody, fat, and ugly ..... you are with her for the rest of your life .....

That. Just. Sounds. Really. Really . Bad. Maybe im just not mature enough to understand marriage yet but it sounds really fvcking bad. You are tied to the same person year after year and then they start to care less about their looks and they fall apart.

Thoughts ? :nervous:

 

[Burroughs]

You want to see something REALLY scary about marriage....watch this video....caution: you will get nightmares

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329

 

[JohnChops]

You want to see something REALLY scary about marriage....watch this video....caution: you will get nightmares

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329

Burroughs please tell me this isnt real ....i seriously never want to get married. EVER. Are you kidding me, this guy got put in jail because he wasnt paying ENOUGH?! This woman should be happy with what she gets, greedy fvcking *****. Wait and the ex released her so HE could make HER more money and she has power over him to put him back in jail... ARE YOU SERIOUS ?!

 

[Burroughs]

sadly the case of Charles Bruce is real and all too common....when men marry they become the nest slave of the women for a lifetime..that is the way the legal system is set up in regards to men.

Your happiness will depend entirely on the whim of the woman you marry....you are her slave...she cheats you pay.....you cheat you pay....stay married she gets fat you pay....you get fat she divorces you, you still pay

Women feel no obligation or sense of indebtedness to others the same way men do. They will only be loyal if there is a high risk of loosing her current benefits.

This behavior is universal and many societies try to mitigate this behavior to promote family stability, such as in Saudi Arabia if your wife refuses to have sex with you, you can refuse to feed her or provide financial support.

In America militant Feminism has gained control over the social consciousness and legal system. Father's are enslaved through alimony and child support. Women behave selfishly, are spoiled, and are disobedient.

The general response by men is now to hit it and quit it since the risks of a long term relationship and raising kids is greater than the benefits they are likely to receive. Basically the entire PUA community emerged due to Briffaults Law, Feminism, and the social changes over the past few decades. in the past Game was not needed.

Why?

Because men had power, respect, and were valued by women as protectors and providors.....and if she cheated you could throw her out in the snow to be devoured by wolves

 

[Trump]

This behavior is universal and many societies try to mitigate this behavior to promote family stability, such as in Saudi Arabia if your wife refuses to have sex with you, you can refuse to feed her or provide financial support.

In America militant Feminism has gained control over the social consciousness and legal system. Father's are enslaved through alimony and child support. Women behave selfishly, are spoiled, and are disobedient.

Agree.

Yet some people want all the freedoms America has to offer and more, but when it comes to marriage and their wives, they like the middle eastern way of thinking.

Either you like freedom and like America, where women have the power. Or you don't like freedom and like Saudi Arabia, where women don't have the power. Cant have it both ways, cant pick and choose freedoms for your wife according to your wants and needs.

 

[pinkfl]

Well...think of it this way as well.

A good wife is one that will take care of herself and her home. She won't "let herself go" and she will take pride in her appearance, the appearance of her children, and her home.

If you are disabled, sick, or injured, she will care for you. She will help you up off the bed when your back is sore, she will run a bath for you for the aches and pains, massage them away. She will take care of and nurture you.

When things get tight financially, she will pull on her big-girl-panties and help out. She may figure out ways to get more affordable clothing or food, or she will help out by taking extra shifts at work.

When your boss gives you a hard time, or a customer yells at you for no reason, she will be there to remind you that you work hard and that you didn't deserve to be treated poorly.

All in all, sure. She might get moody. If she gets pregnant, her ankles will swell up. She might gain a little weight because her metabolism isn't the same as when she was in her early 20's. She will not be "perfect".

Ultimately? Your spouse is your teammate. Your number one fan that will always have your back...all they ask in return is that you, too are a good teammate.

 

[seethehoop]

Don't ever get married. It gives you both licence to give up and kills your relationship. Marriage breeds contentment and you well both let yourselves go. You can't blame the other person because you will have your part in this. I speak from experience, I will never marry again. In fact I'll celebrate my years of successful relationships with a party to celebrate the fact I'm not married to my ltr.